Recently diagnosed with CFS, have I been given the right advice?
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I was really ill in October last year and after that kept catching every virus going. For the last few months I have felt really rough/ill but they could not diagnose anything. I am tired and washed out most of the time, no matter how much sleep I get I never feel refreshed. I suffer with mild headaches, back aches but the worst is my legs. Some times I wake up and they are heavy, painful and I feel burning. On top of this I also feel sick especially if I try to eat.
I'm at my wits end with it all, I've had to quit university and work as I have struggled just looking after my self and my two children. The doctor told me last week it is CFS and that I should just rest but make sure I get up once a day and walk round the house for 5 mins and I will defiantly get better after 3/4 months. She then gave me sertraline and said it would help.
I can't stay in bed all day every day I have to force myself up no matter how painful as I have children. Is there anything else I can do to ease the pain and is this defiantly CFS?
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david59662
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I have a similar story. As a former athlete (triathlon and marathon 6+years) I started feeling unwell, just that off feeling in early November 2013. I was working in a physical warehouse job at the time and was also training at the gym, running etc 5 times week but just thought to push through it. Ss I was very conscious of my diet, supplements etc I felt I was on top of things. And i had been studying naturopathy a number of years, iand felt great because of it, there was nothing that could 'get me' right ? As the weeks/months passed I gradually became worse, the most noticeable part was the fatigue in both legs, no pain, more like a deep penetrating cold like stiffness, energy levels were horrendous. I felt as though I was dying !The leg situation has improved a lot, took about 2 months. So NOW, Mar2014 I still have unrelenting fatigue, I can walk and do basic tasks but my life as I knew it is effectively over. I've noticed the past week slightly swollen lymph nodes on my right groin, GP says not lymphoma, but am still very concerned by that. So all in all can't make much sense of the situation, my white blood cells have been on the low side, normalised lately but they seem to go up and down. I've just recently started acupuncture and herbs at a local TCM centre. Not cheap at £55 acupuncture and £25 week for the herbs but at this stage, 4 months in I am becoming very impatient. Awaiting to see a haematologist. I'm currently staying with my father and if it wasn't for him I don't know how I could cope with life. I like you feel I have to force myself up from bed each morning, it's a real struggle, prior to becoming unwell I was out at 6-7am either running 10 mile or swimming 30 odd lengths at the local pool. How I yearn to be that person again ! Good luck. If I find anything that works I will be sure to come back and post.
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Firefly10
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Thank for your reply, sounds like you have had a hard time of it like me. My white blood cells have been slightly high also but they said that's most likely due to the illnesses I keep getting. I have also had swollen lymph nodes however they have gone down now. It just seems like one thing after another. As with you it's been life changing, I have some good days but if I try to make the most of them I pay for it the days following. I really hope you find something that helps you get back to normal and would appreciate if you let me know. Take care
jacquie14742
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I also have children (3 and 5) and know how hard it is to get up and carry on - i was also working on top of this as of 2 months ago and had to give up...mine has been a bit longer 14 months and also have the swollen lymphs...they are STILL up and have been the whole time...my throats and mouth and fatigue are worse problems...I also have trouble sleeping
One doc said PVF another fibromyalgia (as was getting pains also) another said both....but recently a homeopath said CFS / ME - this makes more sense to me
I have all the viral symptoms and like you have good days and bad...but I am better than i was in beginning...I wanted to say it does get better...im not cured but am ble to take care of kids - its probably due to acceptance, patience and keeping positive...im on a host of supplements and through trial and error have found amitriptyline helps me...mainly because i become manic on any of the stimulating anti ds...i do think the setraline will help..i know others it has helped
If you ever need to talk or vent about kids etc send me a message..i soooo know what you are going through and i hope we all find answers and solutions to the cause of our problems
Take care Jacquie x
JerseyKaz
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I have had very similar symptoms except for the nausea. The legs were the worst thing for me too. Does sound like it could be CFS, but these symptoms can be similar to a lot of autoimmune probs.; however you mentioned you have the diagnosis. It's tough when you have to keep going when children are involved, but this can also be a blessing, as its important to keep going...however you have to learn to listen to your body and take rest periods and break up activities that tire you. Graded exercise therapy is helping me and I'm due for some CBT soon. My understanding is that CFS incorporates Fibromyalgia, as Fibro can be a stand alone condition. I also take supplements as blood levels low on quite a few things like magnesium, iron and Vit.D, so it might be worth getting them checked out. Hope that helps JK
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