Rectal prolapse

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I am waiting to see a specialist after my doctor agreed I had a prolapsed bladder and rectum. I have been putting this off for many years. At the moment I suffer dreadful uncontrollable wind after eating, sitting for a prolonged period and walking. Is this a common problem and has anyone found a way of dealing with this. I dread seeing the specialist as I really can't control the attacks.

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    Hi Linda, I get the impression you haven't read much about this condition otherwise you would have known that wind is such a common problem. All of us on this site have, or have had, this condition so we are here to help. A lot of us have already had the operation done and some are waiting. Firstly there's no need to be embarrassed or nervous so please don't delay in seeing your doctor. You'll then be referred to a specialist. Cystocele and rectocele prolapses don't go away - they get worse. I was petrified on my first appointment at the hospital but I found that laughter helped hide the embarrassment. If you get wind, so what!? Just giggle and say ' excuse me'. Honestly these medical people don't take much notice; they are so used to it - especially with this problem. Doctors too have a sense of humour you know. Whenever I went to see my gynaecologist and her nurses there were always hoots of laughter. So please read, read, read - as much as you can about Cystocele & Rectocele Repair. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. Read all the previous postings on the subject on this website, watch the videos online if you can too. Any questions you want to ask your doctor write them down and take with you on the day. Please do go and get things sorted - you won't regret it.  I had the double repair done exactly a year ago (aged 69) and everything is back in working order.  I am 'soo delighted,' LadyPink
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      Thank you for your reassurance.Having suffered another embarrassing experience last night when walking home with a friend it is good to hear someone make light of it. You are right, I don't know a great deal about the problem or know anyone who has experienced it. Although I have seen a doctor there has been no mention of which grade of prolapse I may have so I will definitely find out more before I see a specialist in order to be able to as the right questions. Hopefully I will at last get this sorted out after more than twenty years of trying to cover it up. Thanks again 

      Linda

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      Hi Linda, No sadly a lot of GP's imagine we patients are ignorant. They don't or won't necessarily give us details - not unless we ask; and we only know what to ask by finding out for ourselves. This is why I always try and read up on a subject first. Sometimes you can even find out more than they know. After all they are only 'general practitioners' i.e. they know a little - about a lot. I was offered a pessary about 5 years ago - until I saw it. OMG! I took one look and refused it saying I'd carry on without it and 'see how things go'. Well things got worse. My husband of 37yrs died after a motor neurone type disease and I started dating again, then remarried. Sex suddenly came into my life again and it was important for me to get things 'repaired'. My new husband encouraged me to 'go for it' and helped no end during the challenging weeks of convalescence afterwards. Now, here I am 12 months later spreading the good news. Life is good again in every way! I hope you decide to get it done - but you must be fully aware and prepared to have at least 3 or 4 months of being a lady of leisure and taking it easy.  Sounds great I know - but it can be very frustrating when you're feeling like you can get back to housework - YOU CANT!  Keep in touch. LadyPink
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      Hi Ladypink,

      good to hear such a positive story and from someone enjoying life over sixty. I am currently 59 and dreading my next birthday . I need to start seeing my glass half full I think. A bit dismayed to hear about such a long recovery time as I currently go to the gym and swim 3 times a week. Had thought 6 weeks would be all the time off I'd need. I also look after my 2year old granddaughter at least 1 day a week but now wondering if that will be possible. Will definitely follow your advice and find out more about what is involved.

      Linda

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      Hi Linda, Goodness me you're a mere youngster ha ha. I'm 70 in a few days and consider myself still young and vital. I still take HRT & people say I don't look my age so maybe thats why I feel so young. I'm not as fit as you mind, although I do long walks everyday with the dog. I'm afraid you are  going to consider your options regarding this operation. How badly do you want things put right? Read on this forum a lot of the previous postings from ladies who have gone through this repair. There is someone only recently who thought she could return to doing normal things too soon... and has (maybe) had a set back. If you really want a successful outcome it's crucial you rest. You are going to feel very tired for the first few weeks anyway. The only exercise recommended safely, is a gentle stroll at first, building up by 5 mind each week. No lifting anything heavier than a kettle of water. No straining of any kind, no picking up anything children, shopping, etc. No strenuous household chores, no vacuuming or changing beds. No standing for too long and no walking round supermarkets for   more than ten minutes! Sorry, to tell you this but these are the facts. Three to four months is nothing - nothing! You have the whole of your life to go and this is just a little blip in your life. I think you need to find out a lot more and discuss it with your family. It's an uncomfortable procedure but if you do as you're told the outcome can give you a new life - believe me. LadyPink

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