Referral
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I hve been able to schedule an appointment with a surgeon that was recommended to me. He operates privately and also NHS. I am NHS. Appointment is not until mid January, and I am wondering, given that NHS is not adhering to the 18 week schedule, how long I am likely to wait for surgery. I live in Wiltshire, but the surgery will be in Somerset.
I live alone and have no family, other than a daughter living in Somerset who does ot drive, so is unable to get out to here to me. Usually I pick her up at the rail station, but will not be able to do that post op. Other than that, I have absolutely no outside support.
Does my situation carry any weight at all with the NHS, or am I expected to manage on my own, both pre op and post op, and in growing pain pre op?
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sarah1996 susie74530
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susie74530 sarah1996
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The problem is that NHS is just a big, "grinding" machine! Uless you can speak to and actual human being, you are just another number in the system!
The surgeon whom I am going to be seeing has a very good reputation as "someone who cares." Having said that, he has to abide by the rules of the game!
I hate making myself a pest, but from what I have heard since returning to the UK, this is the only way forward - persistence!
Hopefully, I shall know more when I see him next month/year.
Kindest regards,
Susie
sarah1996 susie74530
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sarah1996 susie74530
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susie74530 sarah1996
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sarah1996 susie74530
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marilyn_92910 susie74530
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susie74530 marilyn_92910
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Thursday_Next susie74530
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the only help I was offered was 2 visits from district nurse which I refused as I preferred to go to the clinic. I live on my own and had no further help.
susie74530 Thursday_Next
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sharon09171 susie74530
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susie74530 sharon09171
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Many thanks for your response. I cannot believe that NHS expects a patient to wear the same stocking for six weeks. It is unhygienic and impractical.
I am quite isloated where I am, the only "shop" being a convenience store, and I would not want to have people I do nnot know in my home, as I have far too many valuables and fragile antiques that I would not want touched. There is a very high crime rate around here, and I have been targetted perpetually. Police were here, again, just this last Sunday!
Other than that, most of my contacts are still in San Francisco, Los Angeles, Cape Town and London. I dont really know anyone locally, other than a lovely Polish family, but they have more than enough to cope with - three children under four years of age.
My situation is not the norm as I have spent most of my life in America, so have not developed the usual support system in the UK.
kevin19230 susie74530
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susie74530 kevin19230
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My main concerns are around the day to day activities, once I am at home. I am quite fit, but not as fit as I should be, before the arthritis limited my eexercise capabalities and cardio vascular work. Right now, I cannot stand in the kitchen long enough to assemble a salad, for example. Ready meals, post op, I can ust about live with for a limited time, but we are told not to bend, and my freezer in the lower part of the fridge! So how do I get to them? Fresh vegetables, are another problem, they would have to be delivered, but arrive im such bulk, that most of them go off before I can eat them, and then how do I heave a garbage bag out to the bin store?
The above is just a sample of the issues that need to be addressed so that I am not left high and dry for weeks no end, with very little or no assistance.
I am strong, and still do my physio exercises. Have restarted my pushups to build upper body strength, but you never know just how well you recover from the trauma of the op, ad what your limitations are likely to be.
Thursday_Next susie74530
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i have had a weekly delivery from Tesco. I asked them to put the delivery on top of the bins at my back gate. That way I could bring in 1 or 2 bags at a time in my own time without having to pick things up from the ground.
i have a comfortable chair and small table as well as a lap tray in the kitchen. Peeling vegetables, chopping etc is done sitting down with this tray on my knee. You may well be surprised at what you can actually do.
Make use of ready prepared vegetables. Normally I would not buy a bag of cauliflower and broccoli florets, I would buy a head of each and prepare myself but at the moment would buy the ready prepared, even chopped onions and ready sliced carrots. A week after my operation I had made a large beef casserole in the slow cooker just by putting chopped beef in the slow cooker together with ready chopped onions and vegetables without any preparation. The remainder went into the freezer in single portion bags.
good luck and please believe it can be done on your own.
susie74530 Thursday_Next
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I am due to meet with the consultant around mid-January, and his secreatry assured me that although this is a private clinic, I could go in as an NHS patient and they adhere to the 18 weeks policy, if not before. I shall ask for any cancellations, but that of course, means being well prepared weeks in advance. It will be a question of bringing in the loo seat raisers, grabbers, etc., much earlier than anticipated - and then there is the cat...!
I have rather stopped fretting about it all now, and will just allow things to take their course.
Fortunately, I know the area where the clinic is, quite well, and it is in a lovely position. There is a lovely hotel just across the road, that had a small golf course, where I first started golf lessons, and then we would go up to the hotel and sit outside for coffee, overlooking Bath. Wont be taking up the golf clubs for a while!
Have a lovely Christmas and a Happy New Year