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Hi. I have read so many posts and not read any about anxiety bring triggered from relationships ! When i am not anxious I am 100 percent happy with my life but when anxiety comes I doubt my close relationships mainly with my partner and children who are two teenage girls. I worry so much the slightest argument over say what's for tea stresses me beyond belief and I think if we were right for each other we wouldn't argue. When anxiety goes I don't think anything and even forget what triggered the anxiety but a small tiny thing can set it off ! My teenagers argueing with each other sets it off anything really that indicates my close not happy and it could all fall apart. If I am anxious which is a lot of the time just my partner ringing me sets me anxious asi am scared of getting more anxiety over what he may tell me. I get anxious of what people think and How things may look and try to mask everything so people can't see any flaws in my family life. I will get anxious if my fighters snap at each other infront of people or if my partner doesn't agree with something. I am always looking for reassurance I am doing right thing as thou I don't trust my own decisions because of anxiety. I live feeling scared of I don't know what and looking for signs of things not being okay. My partner is good and constantly tells me but their is nothing wrong we are just a normal family. He tries so hard but I know I frustrate him as I wake with a list of worries I then tell him. Wonder how he copes with me at times. Sorry know I am going on !! Can anyone relate to this I would really appreciate your replies and share experiences. Thanks
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