Scared more then ever

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I had sex for the very first time with a girl I do not know about 3 and a half weeks ago. I first saw a couple red dots two days after and went straight to the doctor and was diagnosed with a. Fungal infection. I was so relieved but after 3 weeks of treatment those intial spots have gone away but some more smaller ones with a white tops has come around the pee whole. I then noticed what looked like pearly Penske applies around the bottom of the glands as well as a red rash on my foreskin and a section of my scrotum is swollen and itchy. I'm so scared I now have herpes and I can't sleep most nights. I feel sick to my stomach most the time that my life is over when it's just meant to be getting started. Any help would be greatly appreciated 

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  • Posted

    I should also add these are pretty much pain free
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    Whatever it is I hope its nothing . If it’s nothing take my word for it and never have sex with anyone that you dont know for sure by for sure I mean you actually went to the doctor with them and yall have seen each other papers everyone looks “normal” everyone “wouldnt do that to you” but look how many of us are on this website no one is going to care about you as much as you do protect yourself educate yourself on it dont just throw it to the back burners if you come out clean because that is why it is happening to many people because we really weren’t educated on the situation 
    • Posted

      I agree with your statement. I think it’s very important to know the person you’re sleeping with! 

      1 silly error can cause a lifetime of being uncomfortable! 

      Either way, your life won’t be over if it does come back positive! Just come back to this site, no judgment here, and we’ve all gone through or going through the same thing! So, you’ll have a good support system here! smile 

  • Posted

    I think what you need to do is go back to the doctors. If it’s a blister, they’ll do a swab. If you wait too long, it could mean that you’re too late and therefore unable to do a swab test. I believe the blood tests are very inaccurate if it’s only come into your system.

    If it’s painless, and not itchy, maybe it’s still the fungal infection and the antibiotics weren’t enough? 

    Try not to stress and just get to the doctor as soon as you can smile 

    Good luck & I hope it’s nothing too serious! 

  • Posted

    Thanks so much guys hopefully I'll be able to get to the doctor tomoro and get some more answers 

    • Posted

      Hey Ryan,

      Just checking up smile

      Hope everything is going ok! Did you go to the doctors & has he/she told you what they think the problem may be? 

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    Hey guys so I went to the doctor and he said everything looks fine. Although I'm still very skepticle as it's much more red then usual and still irritation at times. I used some tea tree oil to see if it would help and it helped with the head but made my foreskin very tender and it eve cut a little bit after have a little bit of me time if you get what I mean ahahah. Still scared out of my brain ahahah

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      That’s good news!!

      What I will say, is Tea Tree Oil can actually irritate the skin & so just be careful when applying that. 

      Maybe have a bath, with epsom salt or apple cider vinegar... that will dry out whatever is happening, and ACV is a great anti bacterial and antiinflamitory (oh dear, I hope I spelt that right). 

      If you do that, just sit in the bath for 20+ minutes 😊

      I’m glad the results came back good! If you’re still worried, just wait until it ever happens again and go back to the doc ASAP when you notice symptoms! 

      Have a great day smile 

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