Scared of hiv

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so heres my story on august 22 i had sex with sw(transgender) never had sex before with man in life i didn't do oral with him or i any taken unfortunately i was kind of out of mind and did unprotected sex once. next day asked her if sw is clean or not said she is and i almost had forgot about an incident until first week of oct i suddenly loose my appetite. i started to freak out contacted her asked her a thousand time answer was same clean. well he had a breast surgery after what happened and said did test before surgery and was okay. since i lost appetite next day i kinda had a changes in bowel, specially in the

morning one time and kinda mushy type of bowel. few i work as a batista so back pain wasnt something new for me but it was lot more worst after that about a week i had a very tough time thinking i have hiv i even looked for special care for diagnosed people.

my symptoms are

1.swollen lymph nods on a one side of neck i can feel by touching it not visible (at least for me)

2.mushy bowel in the morning once sometime twice

3.scaly skin on my palm not itchy at all or bumps (happened after i was thinking i will have a rash on palm ) i drink less than a liter of water a day and more coffee yet nothing like this happened before.

4. mild sore throat on and off but now its okay

5. had a mouth ulcer and tongue ulcer both lasted for few days.

6. i feel tiered specially during working time

7. tinny swollen nods infront of ear lasted for three days both side in a different time.

8. had a cold for few days. i thought its normal since everyone was having it due to climate change but mine lasted a few more more like stuffy nose ( i started to smoke even more due to stress)

9. had a night sweat sometime tho i havent felt it lately.

physically im fine now except a tinny nods on my neck rash seems to go but its still on my finger area doctor said its chemical allergy but i dont know yet. sw tested twice last week within one week using icare home test both time tested negative. has anyone gone through the same situation before and tested negative? i want to test but due to some problem i cant right now. will do after 1 month.

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    HIV is a slow poison. It doesn't show symptoms so early.

    Your symptoms doesn't feel like an STD.

    are you a guy or girl?

    You should consult a physician.

    Do a HIV blood test at 4 weeks.

    You are fine ..it is just anxiety getting the best of you.

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    imageimagethats the report of sw.

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      How do you trust on this test ? I did 8 antibodies and antigen tests all came back negative still I have aids symptoms I can't able to figure out real issue behind these symptoms

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      ravi, these are not my test its from a person who i had a sex with like i said i haven't done any tests yet. according to people and internet its 95% above accurate, i dont know whats real either. whatever the symptoms are actually im kinda feeling better. actually thinking of past or whats gonna happen next is more terrible things to do so i've stop worrying and relax when i can i will test no matter whats the result. swollen nods are going away too i think pocking too much was what causing me more swollen. what are your symptoms and how do you know its aids symptoms?

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      hi ravi , im sorry you are facing these things and i know its not an easy thing to let go just like this but what im trying to say is if you've been tested negative for this long why are you worried for a same thing? just one time if it came clean i would be more than a happy. may be its something else which is causing your symptoms but not hiv/ aids. how long it took to show up symptoms after exposure and how long it lasted and what were those? that would actually help me a bit just a bit. hope you stay well and healthy!

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      good to hear that and and hope it will help you as well! i have started to drink more water for three days now. well at least flakie palm seems to return in normal weather it was caused by hiv or dehydration. stopped touching neck also and nods are getting small too has return to normal bowel movement. i also read that hiv symptoms last for days to weeks which is freaking me even more! yet, i can only confirm after a test!

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