Scared pt. w/ Chiari Malformation surgery soon
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Hello,
I'm 39 yrs. old diagnosed with Chiari Malformation on Jun 3,16. Talked to my dr and family about surgery. I just got my date today for surgery July 5. I'm scared. I have 4 children and that's all I can think about. I've always been their wonder woman. I have talked to them about my surgery and it's depressing.
Any suggestions on how to handle the situation and what do I have to look forward to after surgery.
TIA....
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julia79586 Gemini916
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Hi Gemini,
I felt a bit strange reading your post. I'm a Gemini and was the same age as you when I had the decompression surgery. My oldest was 14 at the time and my youngest just a year old. It's pretty safe to say that after surgery 'wonder woman' will need a break to get her head to function again. The operation is quite a big one so expect to feel groggy (you'll be on painkillers for a while) and you'll have a very stiff neck. I could do everyday things like bathing and dressing myself but couldn't cook a large meal or do housework for at least a month. Everyone's recovery is different though. You'll need to pace yourself, let others take control for a while if possible. You've been very lucky in getting your surgery so quickly after diagnosis and with only just over a week to go you must be very nervous.
Try not to worry too much, these surgeons know exactly what they are doing. Get yourself a big, fluffy pair of slippers and a comfy dressing gown for your recovery!
It's been well over 20 years since my decompression and I'm in my early sixties now, I'm sill 'wonder woman' to my family and am as normal as anyone else so you have your whole life to look forward to!
I wish you all the very best and all your fellow sufferers on here will want to know how the op went so keep us posted please. xx
Gemini916 julia79586
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Thank you for your kind words. I have gone shopping for my fluffy slippers and comfortable pj's. My oldest children understand and want me to recover quickly.
I just need to get well soon so I can be there when my granddaughter is born. I know I won't be able to lift and hold my baby for long. Just waiting for the day and put all this behind me. I'm not looking forward to the pain.
melanieheather Gemini916
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Gemini916 melanieheather
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I will take advantage of someone else taking care of me for once.
I will have to learn patience lol...
Counting down the days.
b2wc97455 Gemini916
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At the hospital : I never used my pijamas, I ending up utilising what the hospital had provided me.. its much easier.
I washed my hair the soonest they tok the stiches out (8 days after)
Eat properly try to add with more fruits or supplements
No high hill shoes for at least after 7 months (thats what I was told) - I have a little nap now and then, just listening to my body - I also spray the whole of my body and rub it with magnesium oil after a shower each night. I must say, in my opinion my decompression was a successful one, I am so glad that I made the right decision by having surgery as I have my quality of life back.
I wish youGOOD LUCK!!!! and be positive like what others have put it here, and also be glad that they are going to operate that as quickly as possible some people (to include me) I have to wait for nearly 9 months to have this surgery. So count yourself being blessed and thanks the LORD for that.
Gemini916 b2wc97455
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Thank You for your input.
I will surely take it easy. Just not looking forward to the pain. As for now they have me of work for 2 months.
I can't wait to get the surgery out of the way. I want to feel normal again. I forgot how that is. Just thankful that my job has been understanding on my symptoms ...
b2wc97455 Gemini916
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julia79586 Gemini916
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All the best for Tuesday Gemini, we'll all be thinking of you. I know it'll be a few weeks before you're back on here but pop in asap to let us know how things went. Fill your thoughts with having the summer months off work and relaxing and before you realise, you'll be back home again and on the mend xx