Scared witless about hip op

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Hi I'm about to have a hip replacement 15th Jan 2018.  I'm 56 and scared stiff and feel emotionally unprepared for it.  I was diagnosed about 10 years ago and until a few months ago managed with steroid injections.  Sadly they are not as effective anymore so consequently the op was offered very quickly and I've only had about a month to get my head around it and it still isn't!

My dilemma is sometimes I'm in pain, I tend to suffer with spasms in my thigh when at rest and think I need it!  The next day I could be not so bad .  My family say I've just got used to it and I don't realise how it has affected my life?

Guess I'm worried about my mobility after it has healed as at the moment mobility isnt too bad apart from the spasms and I do have limited range of movement in my leg .  I dance now as a hobby when I'm upto it and anxious i won't be able to dance again.   Quite frankly everything worries me, even down to sitting correctly and laying flat on my back sleeping !

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    Hi Heather

    I have my TLHR on the 29th March and everything you have said mirrors my concerns. I also have been very active and have good and bad days.

    But like you have no flexibility in my bad leg. You are not alone thinking of the issues with sleeping on your back etc. I did ask my surgeon what procedure he would use but forgot the word he used but he did say he goes in from the side and that he would give me a young man's hip whatever that means lol.

    Best of luck on your op and let me know how you get on.

    Regards

    Phil

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    I think it’s normal to be scared before the op heather. I know I was and some of the things I read from people who had problems were quite daunting. My hip had collapsed in one area where I had some cysts so I had some movement that felt normal but suddenly my hip would lock with grinding bone on bone. I couldn’t walk very far and as I used to lead a walking group that was an issue. I managed to exercise pre op doing very modified Pilates, yoga, gym and aqua. I was worried I wouldn’t be able to do Pilates after the op but couldn’t have been more wrong. Being fit pre op really helps. I was doing a Physio circuit class 2 weeks post op, driving again at 5 weeks (would have been 4 but wanted it in writing from the surgeon so had a delay). Back to gym doing treadmill, cycling, weights and pool exercises at 5 weeks. Started clinical Pilates at 6 weeks at the hospital and back to my usual Pilates class at 11 weeks. It has significantly improved my life and was a much better experience than I had feared. All the best for your op. 

    Regards

    ann

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    Hi Heather,

    I am 8 weeks out today from my Right hip replacement. I am a newish Jazzercise instructor and was so worried I wouldn’t dance again! My surgeon told me before my surgery that I absolutely would Dance. 

    Today I am going to take a class, see how it goes and plan is to try to start teaching in a month. 

    Good Luck! You will feel so much better!

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      Hi hope the class went well? Unfortunately my op was cancelled so no new date yet. 
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    I am 59 and had my first THR in September. My next one is on January 15. Frankly, you will be out of hip pain after but you will exchange it for leg muscle pain post op. Sleeping on your back the whole time is terrible but my nurses rolled me onto my other hip with pillows between my legs and pillows behind me for support. A recliner is really the best because feet are up, letting fluids drain and takes some pressure off your back. Get or rent a recliner, it will be very handy. Good luck! 
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      Hi Mary,

      You say a recliner? I have a normal recliner but read skmrway they aren't suitable?  Do you mean a rise and recline recliner? 

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      Sorry didn't check my spelling I mean read somewhere !

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      Hi just been told it's cancelled !

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    Hi Heather, I’m 58 and just had my second THR. My first was a year ago. I was with pain for about 8 yrs. I too was very scared to have the surgery and kept putting it off. It’s the best decision I made. 

    Wishing you an easy and speedy recovery. 

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      Thanks for replying but just been told it's cancelled! So will have to wait 

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    That's part of a worn out hip joint, I was surprised to be told by the specialist that one day I could be in agony and the next not so much pain, when I explained to him, that this had been my experience and GP had been denying I had a problem with the joint itself, the specialist said not unusual, what a relief to be told I WAS CORRECT, it was my hip joint, and a MRI was fightening, showed the ball of the hip had been making a hole in my pelvis.

    ?So I do understand where you are coming from, not being able to sleep for pain, spasms, depression because of pain, and driving my family nuts with the constant complaining and whinging.

    ?After the surgery the pain from the hip joint (worn out bones) will be gone, but you are left with the aftereffects of the surgery itself, wrenched muscles, an effectivly broken femur where they have sawed away the old hip joint and bashed in a new steel/titanium spike into your femur, unbreakable I was told, which is a relief.

    ?The rest is just getting well, listening to what the nurses, Dr's tell you about rest, putting your feet up and forgeting about housework, not bending past 90 degrees for a few weeks, doing the physio exercises they give you to do, and not just once a day, every time you get up, not hurting yourself but pushing until you feel the pull, everything a SLOWLY Slowly for a start, especially LISTENING TO YOUR OWN BODY, and I really mean listening, REST for the first 10 days or so at home, yourbody has taken a beating, but after that you will start to notice the improvements.

    ?I have had a double THR, 15 months apart, not easy but possible, I was in my early 60's and a big girl, which Dr was unsure about, but when he saw my MRI forgot all about weight issues.

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      Dear Lyn

      A bit of a frightening exaggeration regarding the insertion of the stem into the femur perhaps?

      My understanding from watching several videos of the surgery is that when it gets to putting the stem into your femur a hole is first drilled into the femur, then it is enlarged using a reamer to allow the stem to be a tight fit.

      The stem will be tested for correct fit and additional reaming and testing done until it is considered to be correct at which stage it will finally be tapped into place.

      Glad that you are doing OK. Cheers Richard

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      Thanks Lyn but I've been put on the back burner now as they have just cancelled he op 

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      Hi Richard, I was awake for my hip replacement with no sedation and the banging was rather like the noise you get when your neighbour is having house renovations done! I am not sure it was exactly just tapped into place. The drilling was really strange as the whole of the top of my chest vibrated. It was quite an experience on the other hand.
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      Dear Ptolemy

      You are a hell of a lot braver than I am.   My mate always likes to be awake for his surgeries so I take my hat off to both of you!   I imagine that one of the reasons some unlucky people come out of the surgery with a cracked femur is because of too heavy handed use of the hammer and not enough care in getting the fit right first....Ouch!   That's one very good reason for using a really skilled surgeon.

      Yes it must feel really strange having the drilling and reaming work vibrations being transmitted through your bones.

      Cheers, Richard

       

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      Dear Richard, I am not sure it is bravery more that I am obviously not very trustful. In fact I came out of surgery with a bruise on my lower leg that then developed into a blister that became enormous, burst and became infected. I eventually had to have emergency surgery for a debridement about three weeks later, managed to get a spinal with no sedation and was able to watch the plastic surgeon quarterising all the blood vessels with smoke coming up from my leg. I was able to chat with the surgical team which was fun. They are now talking about plastic surgery which sounds bad news. My leg looks like a shark has had a bite out of it. 
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      Richard - The stem being bashed in, that the point when I woke up, the sound was just like a star picket being hit by my husband on our farmlet, my first thoughts were what is my husband doing, then I was awake enough to realise what was happening and where I was, maybe I moved and or made a sound, suddenly their was a face right in mine, asking if I was awake, yes I nodded, he said he would give me a little more sedation. 

      Afterwards I had a talk with surgeon, he said was all well, yes but I woke up, YES he said, are you OK with that, YES fine, but I then later had a counsellor come and interview me, I assume just to make sure all was well.

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      Dear Lyn

      I'm very glad that I was not awake for my surgery and I do worry that some surgeons do not take as much care as perhaps they could. Glad you survived the bashing in of your stem!

      Cheers Richard

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