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Severe Depression

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kk_123
kk_123

I am new to this forum.I don't know how to start this.But here I go.I will tell it in details for the sake of clarity.I had a break up one year ago.I loved that girl more than my life.However,after the break up,I tried to move on,there I met another girl and soon I felt that I had fallen in love with her.But she didn't love me.As soon as she understood that I loved her,she started using me,and I could not take that.I was hurt,and started to back away from her.As soon as I tried to do that,my memory from my old relationship started to come back.So I could not back away.And I am constantly getting hurt from her behavior towards me.I have also become very different now,staying away from people and I can not trust anyone at all.I am afraid of people and always feel that nobody loves me.I am totally isolated now,suffering from acute depression and loneliness.It's been almost 6 months I have been like this way.Any suggestion,help?Thanks in advance.

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  • richard89308
    richard89308 kk_123

    Posted

    relationships take time so try and slow things down and try not to expect immediate results.  Keep trying and don't give up on people some will use you others won't.

    richard

  • kk_123
    kk_123

    Posted

    Thanks for a nice reply smile .Another thing, after my break up,I am almost like scread of people actually.And sometimes keep getting depressed without any valid reason.Is this just normal or do I have a disorder type of thing.Something I forgot to mention here is that I took a suicide attempt almost 7-8 months ago.I don't think anything of suiciding right now,still is it any disorder,or just a normal depression,which will take time to heal.
  • richard89308
    richard89308 kk_123

    Posted

    I am sorry you could not get help earlier. I hope you get your confidence back soon and start to meet people again.

    Richard

  • Borg
    Borg kk_123

    Posted

    You should try to stop obsessing about women and think about what life is really about.  You should try to see the bigger picture and think about your development as a person, and your relationship with whoever is up there.  Women are not the aim or point in life, they are a distraction from the true meaning and true purpose of life.

    You do not have to become a Monk or a Rabbi or whatever, but you should think about your spiritual welfare and your aims and goals in life with regard to what the actual point of life is.

    And i can assure you, the point of life is not women!   wink

     

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