SEX AFTER BARTHOLIN CYST REMOVAL. HELP!

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Hi,

Does anyone know how long you should wait to have sex after cyst removal?

My husband and I have a very healthy sex life and we are just loosing our minds here and its only been 2 weeks.

We tried last night and had to stop cause it hurt. Was tight and stingy. Like he couldnt go all the way in. I know it was probably waaaay too soon and I should have waited.

Please tell me it gets better!

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    My doctor told me to wait 6 weeks. We tried then but it was still painful so we waited 8. It's been 10 now and it's not bad now, although I still feel a little sore after. Lots of other things you can do though!

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    • Posted

      6 weeks!!!!!!!??????

      Awe i will wait so and see how we go. In the meantime ill have to get creative!

      Thanks for your reply Cyrah.

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    Me and my partner tried after 3 weeks ... Don't recommend that !!! he then thought I was the best girlfriend ever for the next two weeks as let's just say he got all the attention !!! Then we tried again after 5 weeks and it was ok but slightly uncomfortable... Just have to take it a bit easier for a wee while ... No bedroom gymnastics!!😂

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      You have to laugh or you'd cry!! I thought having my first one drained was bad enough then a week later I developed one at the other side!! I had that marsupialised and it was the stitches that caused the most pain ... If anything it has brought me and my partner closer together as before this happened I was a total prude and over the past few months with all this happening we now joke about my broken vagina! 😂

      And they say oral sex is good for your facial muscles ... Hasn't worked on my double chin yet tho ... #everhopeful! ??

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      Lol😅😅😅😅😅😅thats so funny. Im a bit of a prude too but i guess im gonna have to cop on! The thing is i don't want to have a starter and no main course😢

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    I did had sex 2 weeks after the doctor lance it, after my marzupalization, it was about 4 weeks, I don't know about cyst removal, but I heard about gland removal you have to wait 6 weeks o more. You know your own body better than me, do it when you feel ready.

    I am 17 years married, we had sex every day or every one day, but after this problem, I don't even want to do it, I'm freak out. My husband is very nice, I get stress about it, we just had it after 3 month, I'm glad my gland didn't grow, but I have to be easy, I'm sure your husband will understand.

    Wish you the best.

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