Sex after turp....how long to wait?
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i have a large prostate. i had surgery dec 13. i went back to er once 3 weeks ago with clots and full retention. i pee yellow with no problems and no blood. when can sex start back up. ive been active with my wife but not ejaculating.
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HowieF joe82842
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I've been 4 weeks following TURP. The only issues have been minor such as passing blood clots and bleeding, usually just after urine flow cuts off. Also a burning sensation while peeing that intensifies towards the end of the stream. The urologist just grabbed another urine sample to see if I still have an infection (the one I've been hit with was enterobacter cloacae, which can be deadly). I had been on Foley catheters for over 3 months before the surgery with 100% blockage. Did you discuss the side effect of "retrograde ejaculation" with your urologist before/after surgery? One of the possibilities is that ejaculation is retrograde, meaning that it goes in the "opposite" direction and into the bladder. Doesn't mean you can't have sex but could mean, no children, from what I've read.
joe82842
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yes my doctor let me know about the re. I have no problem with that. I also have some pain when finishing peeing. i have no clot or blood.
HowieF joe82842
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I have a burning pain when peeing that escalates at the end. Oddly enough, I recently saw the time urinating go way down to 3-10 seconds (usually, 5 seconds) with an abrupt stop at the end followed by some bleeding. My Uro ran some tests and, in the 3 seconds, I am actually emptying my bladder completely. My Uro had also warned me about RE but, since Darlene passed away in 2016, I haven't been that active anyway.
lee56659 joe82842
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My uro said I could resume all normal activity after 3 weeks and I did with no issues. That was 49 weeks ago.
joe82842 lee56659
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did u start up sex normally or start occasionally?
HowieF lee56659
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I guess all uros are different. My Uro said that bleeding will stop 2-3 months after surgery but he didn't say anything much about activity.
lee56659 joe82842
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Everyone's normal is different. We resumed what is normal for us after 3 weeks or so. If your doctor didn't tell you, ask him!