Sex Issue

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Hi, new member here, due to this stupid pandemic Doctors are closed so have to come online for advise. I dont know if this is classed as erectile dysfunction but will say symptoms, looking for advise.

I am a 32 year old so well under the age for this type of issue.

So have been meeting casually with a girl for some time now, last few times we have met, i have had an issue.

I can get hard the first time and usually manage to ejaculate. After this we usually take a break and then go for it again. On both occasions on the 2nd time, i managed to get hard as per normal. But on penetration, on one occasion i managed to keep it hard but could not ejaculate. Eventually lost it.

Today the reason I joined, i lost the errection inside her. We took a break again and tried again, same thing happened, couldn't maintain it. The same thing has happened when meeting other girls too.

She eventually got annoyed and the whole mood was wrecked. I used to enjoy my time with this girl and we used to be able to go at it about 5 times in a whole afternoon. i need to fix this issue or get some possible advise because i have a feeling she will not meet again.

Health wise i am the same as before, only difference is that i have had the oxford vaccine for covid in april and this issue has started in may.

Any help is appreciated

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    Hey Jim

    Sorry that you are having a problem.

    Every man has a different refractory period it can go from 30 minutes to 24 hour. In order to ejaculate a man need to get that spark. I think you are to caught up in the ejaculation. Stress can be a problem.

    Sorry I have to say this but do you do anything else or is it just a day for stop and go sex.

    Maybe you should go for a walk or have dinner or sit watch a movie and cuddle. You also have to remember that you are not a 20 year old where you would be ready every 10 minutes.

    Good luck relax......Ken

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    We do go out for lunch and a walk middway. Same issue has happened, its got worse now. Im thinking to take the blue pill, i dont want to.

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    Before you think of taking the blue pill, I request you to try these 3 things for a month.

    1. Kegel exercises ( learn how to do this exercise from youtube etc).

    2. Exercises that involve weight lifting.

    3. Ashwagandha powder/tablets.

    I had similar problems, and with these exercises and herb, I was able to solve this embarrassing issue.

    One more thing I would advise, 5-6 times in a single day is too much. Twice or thrice a week is a good idea.

    Good luck.

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    thanks for the replies. I have ordered the blue pills. although my issue seems to begetting worse. Dont even get a semi by watching porn or masturbating. Hate the doctors are not seeing people. I cant get any medical advise. Something i used to enjoy so much is now becoming an issue.

  • Posted

    hi can i crush cut the viagra pills, i cant swallow tablets. i really need these now as a last resort. My girlfriend is annoyed i need to satisfy her

  • Posted

    all sorted here, done the exercises and had the powder mentioned. i did take the blue pill because i didn't want to let her down.

    This pill is amazing, best sex i had for ages. i do not want to relay on it.

    But i know what the issue is being caused by. Its the COVID vaccine, ever since then my issues started. i cancelled my 2nd dose and 12 weeks have gone by. I feel already sexual desires are back. Have spoken to other men and they say they experienced reduced sexual desires after the vaccine.

    I will not be vaccinating, had covid and survived so dont need the experimental drug. Thanks for the help all

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    so thought id update, my issue dont seem to be getting better. Have had to take viagra on two occasions when having sex. This has improved errections, I can ejaculate the first time, but it seems after a break i cannot no longer ejaculate. I used to be able to ejaculate 3 or 4 times within an afternoon meeting my girl. Now itsonly once, this is getting very frustrating now.

    Also seem to have lost sexual desire, no morning wood, porn does nothing for me as it used to. Its like my body is not producing enough semen/sperm to ejaculate. Even wet dreams are becoming less frequent.

    I cant go to a GP, no appointments,

    Only thing i can think of is the vaccine, i had a first dose in march, and since mid april my issues slowly started. June has been a complete write of for me sex wise. Would love to hear other people experiences after the vaccine. A few people i have spoken to on other forums report similar, all young too.

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