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grainne68
grainne68

Hi folks,

i probably shouldnt but im gonna go there. What's happens about sex positions post op and how long are we restricted for? I'm worried about putting my hip out and it's been that long because of my complete fracture non union, that I'm missing the intimacy but my husband is worried about hurting me.

I hope it's not too sensitive a question!

thanks 😜

Gráinne

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  • maggie93798
    maggie93798 grainne68

    Posted

    Plenty of info on line about positions. I was given info at preop, seemed to be whenever you are ready after 4-6 weeks and be gentle. I think there is some info on Rocketmans website and there have been other threads which you could find and read.

    if you read everything together it helps the fun

  • janet86017
    janet86017 grainne68

    Posted

    Hi Brianne,

    Glad you brought that issue up.No doubt many out there thinking the same.There is lots of info online but can we be sure it's reliable.I believe the missionary position is safe because your knees are out and not crossing over.Slow and steady I would think and what you are comfortable with.

    Janet

  • sareeta50759
    sareeta50759 grainne68

    Posted

    Hi there,

    Thanks for asking and yes was having the same question. wink was thinking to ask my physio at my next appointment...will keep you guys posted.

    Sareeta

  • sally051266
    sally051266 grainne68

    Posted

    Hi Grainne , I know exactly what you mean, I'm finding it hard as I have just started a new relationship and as we all know things are fresh and exciting but I'm a bit worried about certain positions and without being crude how far apart are you able to put your legs, I'm 6 months post opp.

    Sally x

  • Rocketman_SG6UK
    Rocketman_SG6UK grainne68

    Posted

    Grainne, 

    We've had this several times in the time I have been on this forum.

    Best advice is go slowly, and let your partner know if anything hurts at all.

    Here's a picture of possible positions - I am sure there must be way more possibilities - it depends if the man or woman has had the THR - so ladies who have had THR should try the ones with the female symbol and green tick, and avoid the ones with a red cross and men who have had THR should try the ones with the male symbol and green tick, and avoid the ones with a red cross.

    We had fun experimenting - and come up with our own solutions to the problem, it was kinda nice to get reacquainted with each other after a 6 week abstinance.

    I need to find a picture like this one that is free of copyright etc.for my website.

    The website address is in my personal info here ...

       https://patient.info/forums/profiles/rocketman-sg6uk-907025

    and on the moderator's "useful resources" page at

       https://patient.info/forums/discuss/thr-useful-resources-487147

    Best wishes

    Graham - 🚀💃

  • Rocketman_SG6UK
    Rocketman_SG6UK grainne68

    Posted

    I have updated my website with links to the full article and the 'sex position' graphic - all in "Long Term Recovery" section

  • Thetroll
    Thetroll grainne68

    Posted

    Glad you asked as I have questions too. I know there are some new rules for this topic. First question, can you still role playing date night ? Second question, can you still use the same safe word ? Final question, anyone know where I can get a JFK- Marilyn Monroe costume set ?
  • Chris8968
    Chris8968 grainne68

    Posted

    Its been so long. I had my rthr 6 months ago and my left 4 weeks ago. Prior to my first surgery I was in a lot if pain so it was the last thing on my mind. Then recovering from that, being on pain meds, and my left hip getting very painful quickly.

    Soon I will be able to have sex again and am afraid the expectations may be too high. I'm not sure what to expect and what will be expected of me. Im a 48 year old male and my girfriend has been very patient for a long time.

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