Should I go on cruise?..
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I was diagnosed last month with a 5.4 cm ascending aortic aneurysm and I know that I will need surgery soon. The problem is that my family and I have been planning a 7day cruise in April. My surgeon says that I can wait until I get back from cruise to have surgery, but it’s scary now. He also said that on those islands the medical care is not the best, should something happen. We’ve been planning this for over a year now. I don’t know what I should do.
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xtine margaret23665
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it's the knowledge thats the bummer...I'd go on the cruise but only you know the level of anxiety you are feeling. it will be lovely, Is your blood pressure OK? How come they found it? what's the history? where are you - which country? - they never ooperate under 5.5cms in the UK unless there are symptoms or it is growing fast...as it is not till then the risk of surgery balances the risk of it possibly rupturing - statistically you are not there yet.
margaret23665 xtine
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shannon_46359 margaret23665
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Lifeisgood999 margaret23665
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margaret23665 Lifeisgood999
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sandy_58684 margaret23665
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margaret23665 sandy_58684
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margaret23665
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my anxiety level is "somewhat" diminished...
sandy_58684 margaret23665
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Your blood pressure is controlled with meds....has it been for a while, or only since the aneurysm was discovered? If your aorta has been enlarging despite control of your BP, I’d think twice about waiting. One of the studies I found and based my decision upon stated that 50% of aneurysms rupture at a diameter smaller than 5.0cm. We travel by highway back and forth from Los Angeles to Arizona frequently and I told my surgeon that I wouldn’t want to be on the road if I had an emergency, and ending up with an unknown surgeon. Especially after going to all of the effort to find the best surgeon and hospital. I told him that I was worried about being out on our rural property in AZ and requiring a helicopter to a hospital in Phoenix in case of rupture, and he told me that if I had a rupture in his OR, I would likely die, let alone far away from a major hospital. Also, my aneurysm was more than double the diameter of the rest of my aorta, another criteria used to determine when to do surgery. I wasn’t willing to take the risk, knowing that I needed the surgery soon anyway. You have to do what is best for you, but I didn’t want to die of a rupture....I felt that my diagnosis prior to dissection or rupture was a gift. 95% of the time, the first symptom is death. That was enough to convince me not to delay my surgery. I’m so sorry you are going through this.
margaret23665 sandy_58684
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thanks Sandy for the advice... I've scheduled surgery for May 9. wish me luck
sandy_58684 margaret23665
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How are you doing?
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DebW margaret23665
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Hello Margaret, I found out about my aneurysm and bicuspid valve at the end of March last year. The aortic root aneurysm was 5.7cm when they found it. The knowing and waiting was horrible.
We had planned for a year, for a celebratory family vacation. A cottage up north where it was fairly remote, and an emergency would mean waiting for a helicopter. That was in August. I considered staying home - but it was such a monumental year for our family - my inlaws 60th wedding anniversary, my brother in law and sister in laws 10th wedding anniversary, our son and daughter in laws 5th wedding anniversary, my brother in laws 50th birthday, and our daughters 40th birthday. I couldn't put all of that on hold. Everyone had made arrangements well in advance to be able to be together to celebrate. There were 21 of us - in laws, children and grand children, I had to wait until the end of October before So we went. We had a wonderful time making memories with everyone.
I had my surgery at the end of October. There are some things you just can't control. Life. It's worth living every moment and sharing it with the ones you hold closest to your heart.
All the best in whatever you choose, Margaret.
margaret23665 DebW
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