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should i tell my partner being adulteries

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suemie
suemie

on my bridal shower,my friend took me out and i met my ex-boyfriend,we drank and after few beer we kissed,then went to the car and had sex,i feel guilty but don't know how to confess to him,should i just do it or stay with it

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  • barbara01158
    barbara01158 suemie

    Posted

    Hello Suemie. If you truly love your husband to be, and want him as a life long partner, then put it down to the alcohol. DONT confess! Good luck 
    • barbara01158
      barbara01158

      Posted

      Hello again. I agree with Wayne here. Hope you feeling better and look forward to your lovely wedding xx
  • wayne1962
    wayne1962 suemie

    Posted

    Hi Suemie - What Barbara wrote. Don't think about it, dwell on it, or contemplate mentioning it. Your bridal shower was your last fling in freedom. Did he have a bucks night? Did he tell you all about it? When you say "I do" and exchange those rings, that's when you are beholden to him (as he is to you). Anything before that is the history of separate lives. 

  • gary78460
    gary78460 suemie

    Posted

    do you think it would happen again if you were in the same situation ? if the answer is yes then maybe you dont love your husband to be as much as you think you do and if thats the case maybe hes not the 1 for you
  • suemie
    suemie

    Posted

    thank you all!i appreciate you time and advice
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