should of told new boyfriend now need need decent sex life
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Hi, I got diagnosed with genital herpes 2 years ago with a new partner that ended quite quickly, didn't really know much info about it, just I had it and I get outbreaks when I'm seriously stressed, anyway met the man of my dreams fell I love, but I didn't tell him, I know before anyone says, I should of told him, but anyway, he gets what he said was a water infection and was quite poorly with it, so I thought that's what is was because he no spots, I thought that was the main symptom, anyway we was having a heart to heart the other night and I admitted I had herpes, he was very angry as you can imagine because i lied and he was very poorly because then he tells me his doctor said that when he looked at some spots he said that looks like herpes, don't know if he was tested for it, but anyway, we've talked and talked, screamed and cried, and we are getting through it we both know no contact with outbreak but can you still kiss and how do people lead normal sex lives, because my boyfriend is quite horny and its becoming difficult, and we both want sex, we love it, I mean in my recent outbreak, we found ways of dealing with it, but we both really enjoy oral, and anal and virginal sex, its just getting very hard where I don't know if is becoming too much for my boyfriend to handle, he sometimes treats me as if I have the plague, I love him so much, and we both want a future together, I'm stuck on what to do, please help me!!!
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feelbroken cats4eva
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Were you taking daily meds BTW when you infected him? How long did it take to infect him?
feelbroken cats4eva
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cats4eva feelbroken
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feelbroken cats4eva
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1. Had you already had sex w your current partner when you had an outbreak?
2. Do you have hsv 1 or 2?
Calm down ans relax, we'll figure this out. It's OK. :-)
cats4eva feelbroken
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feelbroken cats4eva
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So he came clean that what he had on his penis after you came clean, that the doctor said they looked like herpes?
Yes, of course you can still kiss. Your genital ob has nothing to do w your mouth. Try nor to stress yourself put too much.