Sleep anxiety ruining my life. convinced i'll never sleep again.
Posted , 87 users are following.
It's been nine days now since I started having terrible insomnia. I feel my life has been ripped out from under me and I don't know where to turn. It started with one bad nights sleep nearly two weeks ago and now I'm not sleeping for one second during the night. The doctor has prescribed me citalopram for the horrible anxiety I'm experiencing all night. I also have sleeping tablets and Diazepam in the cupboard but I really don't want to take them. My big fear is ill never sleep again. Every one keeps telling me that I'll eventually fall asleep but after another night of absolutely no sleep I've convinced myself that something has happened to me and I WILL never sleep again. I've never used a forum before but I guess I'm kindling kind of reaching out to anyone who has had a similar problem or thought pattern. I have very thing going for me in life with great kids and a good job but it all seems over now as I'm convinced my total lack of sleep will ruin everything. Is it possible to never sleep again? Someone please help!
17 likes, 94 replies
ryan12345 stephen82810
Posted
I also had a lot of trouble sleeping, most nights I would only get about 3 hours of sleep 4 if i was lucky.
Doctors were really no help either, and i did not want to take sleeping pills.
One day my friend, who also had a lot of trouble sleeping came across these glasses that you can wear like an hour or two, or all day before bed, and they help you get a full night sleep.
I really didn't think it was real because how could glasses help you sleep better. so i looked them up and did some research on them, they block out all the extra blue light your eyes see before you go to sleep that can hurt your eyes and keep you up at night, so i bought a pair, at that point i'd try anything to help me sleep, so i got a pair and start wearing them before bed.
and literally the first night i wore them I got a full nights sleep. Ever since then I have been wearing them before bed, and sometimes all day because there stylish too, and especially to the beach! If your having trouble sleeping i suggest you check them out!
link below!
Moderator comment: I have removed the link(s) directing to site(s) unsuitable for inclusion in the forums. If users want this information please use the Private Message service to request the details.
Wags1953 stephen82810
Posted
I've had this issue several times over the years and each time solved it the same way: took 15mg of the non-addictive anxiety med mirtazapine (REMERON), whose primary side effect is it makes you very sleepy. After getting into a good sleep routine I cut the pill in half for a few weeks, then in half again, then stop altogether. Works like a charm. You'll feel hung over the first morning after but it stops around morning two. Helps to use half a pill the first night to minimize the hangover effect.
lo65763 stephen82810
Posted
you will absolutely sleep again. i spent 8 months not sleeping a wink , but in fact ypur brain does sleep, maybe light sleep, but you sleep...also you may perceieve that youre not sleeping bcs you ypure in a state of hyperarousal and you have many awakenings between each sleep cycle, so it feels like youve been up all night, but a sleep study will almost always show orherwise. tryst me ive been there. i still dont sleep but it turns out i have some respiratoy/physical issues contributing...so make sure you address any underlyign medical factors with your doctor as well. Anxiety made my issue much worse and i have suffered a lot bcs of it but trust me when i say that youll eventually sleep...you have to get into a mind set pf "i dont care if i sleep" then your brain will stop being so hyperaroused and youll start sleeping a little more , liiitle by little... trust me and the countless other folks taht have all goen through the same thing... dont panic bcs it only makes things worse or prolongs it. easier said than doen, but if i can go 8 months w 0-2 hrs of sleep per night, youll be fine...your brain will not be harmed even if it feels that way. try some natural remedies first bcs diazepam can be addictive if taken more than a couple weeks and adds to the cycle bcs of rebound insomnia
Wags1953 lo65763
Posted
Great encouragement. As I noted below, I've suffered from this several times over 20 years. I take 15mg of non-addictive mirtazapine, whose side-effects are significant sleepiness, an hour before bed until I get back in the sleep cycle. Then, I cut it in half for a week or two, then cut it again, then stop altogether. Always works.
bas123 stephen82810
Edited
hi everone
im only 14 and in so scared ill never sleep again. tonight was my first night of bad sleep. and now im scared i wont sleep tomorrow. i dont know why plsss help me. normally i have one night of bad sleep and the after it will be fine butt now. idk any more.
Wags1953 bas123
Posted
Hi,
So sorry you're going through this, I go through it from time to time myself. You have a bad night sleep, then you worry about having another one so you get anxious. Then, it's hard to fall asleep when you're anxious. Someone on this thread recommended something that I tried and found useful. Try counting from 1,000 backwards slowly, like one count for every breath in or out. This diverts your mind from being anxious and allows you to fall asleep. I also recite Bible verses, or pray--anything to briefly take my mind off sleep. All these things divert my mind from sleep and allow my body (and mind) to settle down. Also, exercise hard--it helps to fall asleep when your body is very tired. In fact, you don't need to count down very long at all if your body is tired--just a short diversion is all you need. Let me know how it goes!
Steve
bas123 Wags1953
Posted
hi,
thx for your reaction. last night is slept well and i thought it would be over. but now im having it again. should i see a docter or something. normally it should bee over by now.
Wags1953 stephen82810
Posted
I would talk with your parents to see what they suggest. Trust me, you will overcome this--I did. It's just a pain when you're going through it. Look at it this way: if you don't sleep well one night, the next night you'll be too tired to stay awake. Eventually you'll get back into a normal sleep cycle--we all do.
bas123 Wags1953
Posted
yee i already talked to them. but they say that i slept over 7 hours last night. and they say that it will be over in a few days. and that i dont have to see a docter. abd i think they are right cause i had one bad sleep and after that two good sleeps so i think its over. im just anxious cause im scared it will happen again.
bas123
Posted
hello wags1953
bas123
Posted
wags1953?
Taddjo stephen82810
Posted
Hi
For many years I have been plagued by insomnia. I so have sleep anxiety.
Recently I realized my sleep disorder could be due to calcium or vitamin D deficiency. Hence I started taking magnesium, vitamin D as well as drinking milk, as in adult milk powder not those packet of milk which actually contains less calcium.
It helps. I do wear block blue light glasses at least 2 hours before sleep. Any kind of amber glasses will do, you could find on Amazon or Ebay. Need not be expensive.
I try to drink before sleep or if I could to drink twice a day and it helps me go to sleep faster. unfortunately I'm still on medication but maybe taking medication for years causes me tolerance hence it doesn't work well as it used to be.
Another option that helps is to soak your feet 30 minutes before bedtime in slightly warm water.
I actually saw this on the internet that consuming honey, organic coconut oil and sea salt helps too. I have yet to try it.
Meditation helps too. In fact I realized too that my irritable bowel syndrome could have also been robbing me of my sleep. So there could be a few reasons why you haven't been sleeping well.
Hope if helps.
jo
Taddjo stephen82810
Posted
Try drinking a glass of hot adult formula milk 1 hour before sleep. It might help. If you could drink 2 glasses a day but space it out or you end up going to the toilet middle of the night.
Google how digital devices have blue light which disrupt sleep. Try install apps like twilight to switch your phone to block blue light and see if it helps. You could also try not to look at digital devices 1 to 2 hours before bed. It does disrupt your sleep. You might want to try getting a pair of block blue light glasses and wear it few hours before sleep. It will help.
Soak your feet in a small basin before bed in slightly hot water. It helps too.
Magnesium oil sleep spray also helps. Lack of Vitamin D can also affect sleep. You can try taking liquid vitamin D every morning but not afternoon or night as it will keep you awake.
flier1962 stephen82810
Posted
stephen82810
I am new to this forum - reading about your sleeping problems is exactly what I've been going through ever since my dad passed away in 1997 at a very young age. I start to get anxiety towards the evening because I'm scared to lay in bed thinking I will have another night of no sleep - when I feel myself starting to fall asleep my body feels like it's dropping and I wake right up again. I have gotten so desperate that I will go downstairs and take 2 shots of tequila LOL. I will never ever look to see what time it is in fear that it's only 1:00ish or so. I will look out my window at night to see if anyone has their lights on to make me feel like im not alone. My husband's head hits the pillow and I count how long it takes him to fall asleep.. around 10 seconds and he's fast asleep. I have tried so many different things and nothing helps - I feel it's the anxiety that is keeping me up, im anxious that I wont sleep so I DONT!! I started reading this book called The Power of NOW which has slightly helped me. It emphases that a mind can harm you if not treated in the correct way.. It states you must become of NOW thinking of what your doing at this moment and turn your mind into a mindless state only using your brain for things that are essential. I have to say reading what others are going through makes you realize we are not alone - why is this that some people will never experience this and some do. I have a very vivid imagination and am always thinking of s**t. This must be why...