Small Ob's but no symptoms ?

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hello, so i dont get symptoms like tingling or any of the other ones i get some minor itching but then i checked and i had two little bumps were ive had my other obs at

they dont hurt or anything but ive noticed that they dont look like ulcers they just look a bump/ bug bite. not saying that thats what  they are but just saying thats how they look.

Do any of u guy get obs with out symptoms as well?

Also i was wondering if any of you have tried dating site with h. possitives 

if so i would like to hear some feed back

thanks smile

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    I actually get no warning sign when my obs come.. So symptoms... I only have symptoms when there's nothing there and I believe this to be asymptomatic shedding.

    Since my first two obs, I never have ulcers and it's a year next month since I've had this. U just get the red bumps. Make sure you soak in Epsom salt bath, makes them disappear in like 2-3 days.

    I have tried the dating w h positive people, not a lot of options on there. Think people are spooked about having their pics online stating they have H. I have met a couple good catches, just not right for me.

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    Hi :-) My first signs of an ob are exactly the same as yours. I get a localised itch right on the spot where a day or two later I get a couple of bumps appear. They don't ulcerated and give me very little pain apart from an annoying itch just like a bug bite.

    I found a dating site in the UK called HYPE. I have met someone on there and we have been dating for six months now. I couldn't be happier and it's given me my confidence back and made me realise there is life after herpes. Give it a go. You never know what around the corner. Good luck x

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      Yeah thats how i am. no warning sign althoug my ob are sper mild almost like they arent there excepct i know they are.

      yeah i wanted to check out a website and see what happens

      im just having a super hard time thinking about disclosuing my situation with  someone who doesnt have H 

      i dont think i could do it 

      i fee like my confidence wouldnt be the same. 

      ugh rolleyes

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      I totally understand your fear on disclosing to someone else. The very same thing fills me with dread, that's why I looked on a an H dating site and got lucky I suppose. I have made friends with makes and females on HYPE as they offer more than just dating but loads of support too. I have spoken to people on there who have had very little rejection to zero rejection when disclosing to a none sufferer so I gues when the right guy comes along we just have to be brave and go for it. Having said that I do realise it's easier said than done and I've not had to do it so far myself. Try and be strong. It is so hard sometimes I know 😊
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    yeah i usually dont get warning signs. i tried to get off the meds and see if i would still have obs and since i was about to get my period i got one and i wasnt on the meds.

    i just started taking them again. 

    hmm i kno what u mean. i was checkin oyt but i have yet not posted a picture of my self either. just wanted to see how it was first.

      so i wa reading on this medical trial that is going on right no to find a vaccine for herpes.

    what do u hink about that 

    do u think theyll ever come up with one

    it just trips me out how theres so many crazy things that theyve been able to figures out except a cure for H

    oh and also i seen this one ersaser herpes cure

    have u heard about that ?

     

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      Hun, there is no herpes cur, do noy fall for that stuff. . i don't forsee an approved vaccine/medication that will make it through trial and be available for a long time. That has a lot to do the big pharma.. It would cost them billions, as they make so much off antivirals, so they'll essentially bribe the FDA and whatever the UK has as equivalent, to halt trials and drag them out, as they did to one that passed human trials. It would put the antivirals completely put of business.

      When I broke out of meds, I just got anal fissure for debilitating fatigue, so I got back on meds, die to the fatigue... Everything else was fine.

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