So anxious it's making me feel sick
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Hi,
I have suffered with anxiety for years and my job doesn't help, my boss blames me for things that are not my fault and try as I might I just can't seem to get another job to get away!
Well it's back to work tomorrow and the very thought makes me feel sick and very teary, I just do not want to be there however I have to go as I have a mortgage and two children to pay for, I feel genuinely ill just thinking about walking through those doors and having to face that obnoxious, sexist, arrogant man, I have nobody to turn to at work as it's a family business and I just get a "you know what he is like, ignore him" response, he is even more mean to me when he finds out I have said anything, it feels like a vicious circle that I can't break, I don't know how to calm down, I know I won't sleep tonight!
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marlene21102 pen1976
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Is there no one you can go see legally for advice,find out your rights first hand. If he thought for one minute this bullying was going to hit his wallet he'd be worried,he really must be STUPID or PLAIN THICK.
So put your foot down and say no more you will let this go on.This ike will find someone else they always do. Don't let anyone put you down like this,go to job centre explain what you've said to this site, you've got children to watch out for and last thing they want is a mum or dad this unhappy,and with anxiety.sorry your being made to feel like this dreading going to your job, wait and see what others on site suggest tonight maybe they've had this awful thing happen and how they dealt with it Hope so Good Luck
pen1976 marlene21102
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no he does not do this to men, in fact most of the time that I have caught him blaming me for something is on an email to one of the male members of staff when he has messed up so blames me (I am his PA and have access to his emails)
in the last company I worked for, I worked for a really powerful man who treated me so well and was always polite and friendly, this was a huge company, I work for a relatively small company and can't understand why this man is so mean, it hurts my feelings so much.
do I risk walking out?
richard89308 pen1976
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Sometimes it is better to just move on especially if you are involved in a family business.
richard
pen1976 richard89308
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marlene21102 pen1976
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Keep eye out for work elsewhere I agree. If any justice your come out the winner.
How sad is he.? Stay watching for post maybe some one legally minded could do you a private post on this . X
pen1976 marlene21102
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i would be so grateful if there was someone who could give me legal advice, I really do not want to go in tomorrow, I'm filled with dread, chin up and battle through, I'm sure I can get another job, just hope it comes soon, and I feel bad for anyone that gets my job after me!
marlene21102 pen1976
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As you say chin up your come out on top.promise your way better than him your worth more remember that tomorrow x.
pen1976 marlene21102
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I will ill try to look up tomorrow, thank you, you made me smile if nothing else, your tough huh! Wish I was like you xx
marlene21102 pen1976
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I'd certainly give him good run for his money.
obviously he's not learnt much for all of his years .he will end up lonely old man way he behaves. Come on site lets know how your day went x