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And so it starts with the tears and emotions ... 2 weeks today I had my anterior repair and have been having an up to now fab recovery . I think I may have an j faction to which I get the results tmw but apart from that and feeling tired ( always resting when my body tells me too ) I have been feeling good . Managed 2 walks last Sunday and rang the hospital up to see if I have done wrong or if it was ok , they encouraged me to be out on walks and said it was great if I was feeling up to it. Hubby on the other hand has turned into a doctor overnight . Sick of him telling me to not do things . Mainly going for walks , which apart from those two last Sunday I haven't done anymore . He has been driving me around and visiting ppl if I've felt up to it , he went bk to work yesterday and I felt up to picking my little one up in the car so I drove my own car to get her and then nipped to the shop to get her some new school shoes , then back home and on the bed watching to for a good few hours ! There is no other way of getting my daughter from school ? Apart from my dad but he isn't the most confident driver and without sounding horrible I hate being in the car with him) so needs must . I am taking it easy round the house , no lifting , no hoovering , no hanging washing out etc ! He just won't let up saying I'm doing too much , it's getting me down and were argueing a lot !! Sitting in seperate rooms etc , I'm such an outgoing person and usually doing something with my day if I'm not working , being stuck in the house and not even being able to clean is taking its toll . Am so frustrated and keep crying today and it's not even lunch time yet , my friend is coming to pick me up to go for a coffee somewhere . Sorry for the ramble but I need to let off steam . I know he means well but he is now saying the nurse at the hospital shouldn't of told me I was ok walking ! I think she knows best !! Feeling very sorry for myself x
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