So frustrated!!
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And so it starts with the tears and emotions ... 2 weeks today I had my anterior repair and have been having an up to now fab recovery . I think I may have an j faction to which I get the results tmw but apart from that and feeling tired ( always resting when my body tells me too ) I have been feeling good . Managed 2 walks last Sunday and rang the hospital up to see if I have done wrong or if it was ok , they encouraged me to be out on walks and said it was great if I was feeling up to it. Hubby on the other hand has turned into a doctor overnight . Sick of him telling me to not do things . Mainly going for walks , which apart from those two last Sunday I haven't done anymore . He has been driving me around and visiting ppl if I've felt up to it , he went bk to work yesterday and I felt up to picking my little one up in the car so I drove my own car to get her and then nipped to the shop to get her some new school shoes , then back home and on the bed watching to for a good few hours ! There is no other way of getting my daughter from school ? Apart from my dad but he isn't the most confident driver and without sounding horrible I hate being in the car with him) so needs must . I am taking it easy round the house , no lifting , no hoovering , no hanging washing out etc ! He just won't let up saying I'm doing too much , it's getting me down and were argueing a lot !! Sitting in seperate rooms etc , I'm such an outgoing person and usually doing something with my day if I'm not working , being stuck in the house and not even being able to clean is taking its toll . Am so frustrated and keep crying today and it's not even lunch time yet , my friend is coming to pick me up to go for a coffee somewhere . Sorry for the ramble but I need to let off steam . I know he means well but he is now saying the nurse at the hospital shouldn't of told me I was ok walking ! I think she knows best !! Feeling very sorry for myself x
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Beetlebugmik sarah37908
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I feel for you and most of us here know exactly what you are going through.
I couldn't drive until i was 7 weeks as i was physically unable to do the emergency stop. Luckily I had a good support system for my son to be taken and picked up from school but its been hard, im still not going out of town or any distances yet; just not ready.
You will get there remember it takes time, enjoy your coffee and friend today, its good to see other humans lol. i felt sometimes in the first couple of weeks all i wanted was a chat with someone not in my house and feel a little bit of me again.
Take it easy now and maybe let your dad do the school run just until you are ready to be back in control again, hopefully sooner than later.
we have all been there with the cleaning i.e. my hoovering comments but i know i cant and i wont because i come first and if the house is dusty well so be it, but ill be ready and waiting in 4 weeks time
take care my lovely
Mik xÂ
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phyl_40063 robyn94818
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Have been really careful thus time and feel that the anterior repaid had been definitely successful thus time, posterior still a bit to go I think.
But not taking any chances thus time don't want to have to go through this a 3rd time to the cist of the NHS or have to go on sick again, didn't go on sick last time and feel I've blighted my ' never been on sick ' record. Feel really guilty and don't want to be of again.
Although I heal resonant quickly, I know I'm not one of the fastest healers, my hubby heals amazingly fast whenever he injures himself, the only time he didn't heal was when he crushed hus finger, went to emergency and they cleaned and dressed it,
He gad it checked at later date and local nurse came in to clean and redress it, everyone missed the fact he had a bit of broken nail in the wound and as soon as he took if out himself it healed up very quickly.
Don't know hoe everyone managed to miss the bit of broken nail.
Anyhow it is amazing to see someone heal so fast; he has skin almost as thick as whale skin so don't know if that gas anything to do with fast healing.
All the best,
Phyl x☺