So what happens when you start falling for your doctor?
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How do doctors deal with patients who seem to like them in that way is it obvious if you dont actually say anything but seem a bit embrassed or nervous when the handsome doc is infront of you ive been seeing this gawjus lean doc for couple of months now at first i never had any feelings for him at all but because i had so many complications i had to see him so often a spark came up out the blue whenever i think of him i sigh take a deep breath and wonder has he got a six pack oooooerrrrr....he gave me an examination twice i felt nothing but his eye contact and lean body and lovely shirts they have drawn me in. I think he might be aware were my eyes wander but i do hide it well ive seen him looking at me to etc but you have to be careful hate to lose him as a doc as he is really professional he is good at his job not even the type i go for then why the hell do feel drawn to him...im embrassed now..i might tell him at the next meeting that i want to call him rosy and take him home with me and and comb his beautiful beautiful hair....??
Is that rather odd??
Im not too bad looking myself.
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psychochief
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this sort of thing is quite common, but im afraid you really do need to grow up and leave this poor man alone, may i suggest you see a different doctor as your obviously not going to do this doctor any favors by making advances towards him, save yourself and him any potential embarrassment by doing so, sorry to be brutal.
Gerry_the_neck
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secret
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..switch over to another doc noway i wouldnt really tell him who cares as long as i dont confess he is still my doc wont miss the opportunity to perv on him....
Gerry the neck - i dont wish to lose him as a doc i need treatment.i take my health seriousily trust me he hasnt got away with anything i still speak up about all my concerns but he has def got a six pack ...
Gerry_the_neck
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psychochief
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for christs sake gerry stop encouraging her lol, maybe a trip to the local psychiatric unit might be appropriate secret lol
that 50 shades of grey sure has a lot to answer for hehe.
vanyalm
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I think you are a responsible person and you know what is best for you,right?
sometimes is hard to take decisions drown down from some feelings.
try to establish:
what is more important to you?
- to have a doctor who is professional and good or?
- to let your feelings drag you down and search for a new doctor?
Doctors' patients relationships are based on professionalism, loyalty, empathy and collaboration.
you have a choice.
luck!
Juliana4675
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Also, if he is coming on to you, he's probably doing the same to other patients. How would you feel about that?
Guest secret
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jenny secret
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Don't get into that situation, change your doctor.
joy47826 secret
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I had a osteopath MD for many years when in my 30's to about 50's or so...he was probably close to 20 yrs older than me.....his wife was very sick for a lot of years but he was very faithful to her, and I would NEVER get involved with a married man anyway....in my mind he was attractive and good to me.
So along the years, she passed and then he made a move a while later and invited me to dinner and said I could bring a friend which I did...he took me to his house to show me his game room which I abhore, seeing dead animals sfuffed and hanging on his walls.....I knew we had NOTHING in real common.... this is my story with an MD.....and thoughts of romance....
So we did go out a couple times but it ended....a real dead end....
valley86722 secret
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