Sore hard lump on my vulvar

It could be some kind of cyst. I occasionally get sore hard lumps on the inside of my outer labia and they usually go away after a week. If yours hasn't diminished after a few days you should really see a doctor.

I know its difficult for you as you are only 14 but please believe me when I tell you that Doctors have seen it all. They will have seen a lot of vaginas and lumps and bumps and they are there to help you. You can ask to see a lady doctor or if you are in the UK a triage nurse who will take a look. To be honest it could just be a little spot type thing so I would leave it alone for a few days and it may just go away. Don't keep touching it or it will make it worse. Your bits down there are pretty good at cleaning themselves so don't be picking and scrubbing and cleaning it. Just leave it alone. Wowzers I have waffled on a lot here! Do post and let us know how you get on but I'm pretty sure if you leave it alone it will sort itself out. Love Annie

That's a good plan. And again your mums more than likely had something similar over the years and she's given birth to you which at 14 not really something you want to think about but trust me once you have had a baby you don't worry about Doctors seeing your bits down there! Remember the more you prod and poke and scrub the worse it will get so leave alone. No lotions or potions or soap down there. I'm sure all will be fine. Love Annie

I agree with Annie. Leave it alone, then check after a few days. If it is just a pimple (you can get those down there), it should have gone down. Don't be scared to tell your mum, like Annie says, she may have had something similar. My 14 year old daughter come to me with all sorts of lumps, bumps and things hurting. I've usually had the same and tell her it is nothing to worry about.

Update-  I checked it again today and it is no longer visible however I can still feel a little bump there which might probably disappear within a few days... I'm so relieved!!! Thankyou for all the comments and advice, it means so much to me and helped me stop worrying myself all the time! Thankyou, love Emily xx

Remember don't poke around too much. If you must, make sure your fingers are clean.