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bibby86013
bibby86013

is it fair to spend over £60k on your spouse and provide for her and our son with no sex for over 3 years ?

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  • kelly55079
    kelly55079 bibby86013

    Posted

    Sorry to hear BUT it is very common to be in a sexless marriage.
  • kelly55079
    kelly55079 bibby86013

    Posted

    There is a website that talks about marriages about this issue as well as other issues.  You might want to look it up for support.
  • hypercat
    hypercat bibby86013

    Posted

    Sex is an important part of any intimate relationship but I don't think equating it with money is the right attitude.  Have you asked your partner what is going on and why they don't want it any more?   This should be your starting point.  I would keep money out of this as it sounds a bit like paying for sex.  x

  • jj07521
    jj07521 bibby86013

    Posted

    You should communicate these feelings with her, maybe you could even see a sexual therapist together? 
  • DaisyDaze
    DaisyDaze bibby86013

    Posted

    Really? More info would get this discussion going. Is it menopause, female problems, age? Have you been driving her away? There are so many factors that can lead to a sexless relationship. Like the others said, keep the money out of it!
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