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detour12
detour12

Hi all i been going thought all this since October. I had this fun that i truly enjoyed being with and talking to. Basically made me very happy and was enjoying life for once. But i was talking to much and always with him and i guess some how my teacher found out and he talked to me about it and said i can talk to him once a week but i broke the rule and went behind his back and talk to my friend when i was not suppose to. my teacher told me i cannot talk to him for one month! I was heart broken. I cried for about one hour. and i was on zoloft at the time and it did not help! So when the month went bye i asked my teacher if i can talk to my friend again and he said if you can not ask for a month and he added a another month on it! and from today i have not spoke to my friend ever since. So on November I went to the doctor and said i don't want to live anymore and i told him my problem and he up my zoloft and that help a little but made me very sleepy and then he change it to effextor. that made things worst. then he ran out of ideas and refer me to a physics. and i told him my problems and i asked him about cymbalta and he gave it to me and it is helping me a lot made this so much easier to deal with but i still miss my friend a lot and summer is almost here and i am still a little depressed what medication do you suggest for me with my problems ?

  

 

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  • laura08496
    laura08496 detour12

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    sorry, i am nosey. where on earth were you while this teacher told you who you can see or not see. i've never heard about anything like this before! you dont have to reply, its not my business ,or even my story to tell. i've just never known a place where others decide who you talk to or not.  thats kinda crazy. no offense, was this in a jail?  please dont be insulted, i am just trying to figure this out.

    oh, and dont be lonely this summer. you may meet some great people. i know i always did. summers are a great time. try to enjoy yourself.

    • detour12
      detour12 laura08496

      Posted

      Hi

      I talked to him when I was not suppose to and my teacher found out about it and told me to stay away from him a month but it's been all school year and I really miss him,

      This what happened recently

      Hi today i said hi to him and he said hi back in a normal voice and then i bump into a door and he said are you alright after we both said hi and i said i told him i want to talk to him again but he old mean teachers won;t let me and he just shock his up and he just waved.

  • laura08496
    laura08496 detour12

    Posted

    i can feel your sorrow in the messages you write. you are right about things not being fair. first it was one month, and then another month,on and on. this teacher really wants to keep you both apart. i dont know if that is entirely legal. have you talked about this to a councelor, or maybe your family. do you think if you bring it up, you may get in trouble? don't want that! 

    you may have to accept whats going on is a school rule or something like that. but no one said anything about writing to eachother. thats what i do with one of the guys i know. we write long letters to eachother and its a lot of fun. get his address, and tell him how you feel, write it down...and i am thinking, the teacher cant say not to talk to this young man this summer if you find eachother at a local pool or beach or hamburger place. you should be allowed to enjoy eachothers company! you're not doing any thing wrong. but i suggest you ask your family their thoughts. hopefully they will come up with a solution. good luck sweet heart. i hope things work out for you!

    • detour12
      detour12 laura08496

      Posted

      Hi i did talk to my counselor about this and she was kind of negrtave about she said the chances are very low that he will let you talk to him again. the teacher did help me write out a plan and their are going to give it to him and see what he thinks. he talked to me after we wrote the plan
    • laura08496
      laura08496 detour12

      Posted

      a plan is always good. you'll know where you stand in this relationship. obay the teachers, you dont want anymore trouble. i am just thinking, what about your friends? do they advise you, and support you? be with people you love, and be with the ones who love you back. friendships are not supposed to be this hard! good luck to you doll. take good care!
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