Struggling
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things are so hard lately and are only getting worse, been drinking more, cutting more, sleeping less, been taking tablets left right and centre, feel like giving up, why fight when I know I can't win?
Im my own worst enemy, been given help from CRHT who have been so kind to me and tried their best to help me, had daily visits for last 2 weeks but the last 2 days ive not been able to open the door or answer their calls, I know it's pathetic im just So scared, my anxiety is through the roof, it's so hard for me to see or talk to people, they will probably give up on me now!
Just wish I could i hide away for the rest of my life, or better still not be living! It's too frigging hard! How can I change this? How do I change me?
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paddy18679 Dondons3
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UK-Ven-medicate Dondons3
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Nessie91 Dondons3
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hypercat Dondons3
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It sounds like your meds need changing as no one should have to suffer like you are. You need help - accept it please. Only then can you start to live again. What's the alternative? You need to decide whether you want to give yourself a chance to live or whether you really want to end it. Harsh I know but I faced this decision a few years ago and I chose life. I am glad I did. Choose life please love. Lots of big cuddly warm hugs. Bev xx
Dondons3 hypercat
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Im glad you chose life, you're a lovely, kind and caring lady xxx
hypercat Dondons3
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And so are you Dondon which is why I am trying my best to help. I totally get what you are saying love and if you are not choosing death then you are choosing life. Can you make changes in your life to make it easier or better? If you don't know what you want do you know what you don't want? How can you be a pathetic person when you have your 2 babies? You have obviously done something right. Stop being so hard on yourself and try and be your own best friend. Easy to say I know but very hard to do. Pretend you are looking after an ill friend - would you treat them the way you are treating yourself? No you wouldn't! Why treat yourself so harshly then? Every time you are putting yourself down or considering harming yourself put your head into best friend mode.
You don't deserve any of this s.... you are going through but it is the illness of depression and you have to hold on that things will get better coz they usually do. As someone who has been where you are matters normally improve and with proper counselling you will give yourself the tools to deal with this. Lovely big hugs for you sweetie. Pm me anytime. Bev x
Dondons3
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UK-Ven-medicate Dondons3
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if you getting anxiety they need to know so they can find out why