Struggling with new diagnosis

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I was just diagnosed with Meniere's Disease a few days ago after months of fluctuating dizziness and tinnitus.  I'm only 31 years old.  I feel like my entire life was taken away from me and I'm looking for some reason to be optimistic.  Is it possible to live a normal, happy life with this disease?  Is there any possibility that it will ever go away on its own or at least not get any worse than it already is?  Is there any research being done to look for a cure?

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    thanks for your responses everyone.  very helpful.  I just feel like all I read about is how awful and debilitating this disease is and reading those sorts of things is draining me of hope.

    Unfortunately, I have a very demanding job with extremely long hours that is sometimes stressful.  I don't want to quit though.  I'll just have to try harder without burning myself out.

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    also I usually get about 6 hours of sleep per night.  10 hours just sounds absurd to me.  I would need to go to bed at 8:00 pm for that to happen.
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      I definitely need at least 8 hours sleep or more...or I am worse...
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      How are you these days? Im currently bei g referred for testing for Meniere's. I feel hopeless already! Im 26, in College & a mom. I pray that you are in great health & spirit!
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      2crissyMo

      How did your tests go? I have been dizzy for 9 days now. Started with a flutter in my right ear, then a fullness in the ear & bam non stop dizzyiness for the last 9 days. Doctor at emerge suspects Ménière's disease but I have to go get tested for it sad

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    Joel - I'll give you maybe some positive news. I heard different things from different people, but the good news was that I heard of other people who had Meniere's who managed to have a pretty normal life.  It seems to me that the symptoms in everyone are very different (as well as the extent of how debiltating the disease can be). My ENT told me (and I read this on some websites), that sometimes Meniere's just goes away on it's own. In other cases, it's a chronic situation that people will have for the rest of their lives. Hopefully we will all have the luck of having the Meniere's symptoms just go away!

    I think the people who seemed to be living w/ Meniere's and have a "normal" life, seem to control their sodium, caffeine and alcohol, but especially the sodium. I think the advice about decreasing stress and sleeping is also good (I've been trying meditation, breathing techniques, etc. and that helps a lot).

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      Agreed about controlling your sodium. I also have to watch out how much sugar and caffeine I have as well...if I end up drinking a lot of coca cola my tinnitus will go crazy on me. It's annoying having to control your diet around this and even I have 'cheat days', also known as 'f*ck it days'...but it does make a difference when you can keep to it.

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      I totally agree with what you are saying txgal, I think that the people that tend to write on these types of forums and on the internet have very extreme symptoms, or they have lesser symptoms but great anxiety.  We tend to then believe that we will experience the same as them as we have the same condition.  I believe that positive thoughts can help in all situations, eat and drink healthily, get plenty of sleep and take all the specialists advice, and pray that things will get better xx
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    I've only been on this site for about 2 weeks and I've found it's the one of the best forums out there. I'm in Indianapolis, Indiana, US and there's not a lot of resources here. A lot of the "forums" seem to be fronts for selling books and supplements. This site, however, has been a wealth of information. I've been dealing wiih this for about 8-9 years. It's hard to say exactly when the symptoms started. I've tried the low sodium (that seemed to make things worse). I've had an endolymphatic shunt which helped for a couple of years, but that was never advertised as permanent. My next bad episode I had steroid injections and then eventually a round of low dose Gentamicin injections. My hearing suffered very limitied damage, but the effect of the injections only lasted about six months. After a year of increasing symptoms, I am now on another run of Gent shots. The first didn't cause any vertigo so it's on to round two. My best advice would be to keep trying things until you find something that works for you. And don't take "this is something you have to live with" as an answer. Keep looking for what works. It's different for everyone. I'm lucky that I've only suffered limited amounts of rotational vertigo. Most of the time I'm just regular dizzy, seasick and unsteady. Don't give up. Keep plugging away.

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    My daughter is 14 and has had a problem with nausuea for almost a year.  She has ringing in her ears for a few months now and she is dizzy as well.  I am taking her to the ent dr next week but i would like to know if there is something i should ask the dr or say to them that way they dont perscribe useless meds? 
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      Get a hearing test and an MRI. That way you will know for sure if she has Menieres or not.  Her symptoms could be down to just a plain old middle ear issue (lets hope) xx
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    Joel I read where u retrained your brain for the ringing I have it super bad and seems anything makes it go off. Now I did retrain my brain for falling by doing endless blind walking head movements. Can u give me any suggestions

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    Hi Joel

    Sorry to hear about your MD. The early months are very unpleasant and it can be hard to imagine ever getting back to something like normal. For me it took nearly a year to find a really experienced specialist who told me for the first time "people with menieres get better". It was well worth finding a private consultant with a lifelong interest in vestibular problems, should have done so as early as possible. I cut out salt and alcohol , and also reduced caffeine and eat smaller healthier meals. Trying to get regular exercise, walking for hours, sleeping well and avoiding stress all helped. Vestibular rehab exercises gradually help to improve balance and desensitise you to the "travel sick" sensations from certain movements. I'm two years in now, work full days , drive whenever I need to , have been surfing, cross country running , kayaking, mountaintain biking, climbing, hiking, and recently took a flight and had a great skiing holiday where all the balance training meant I could ski as well as ever (to my great surprise). There is hope- but be bold, do all the right things, and work hard at getting better once your attacks start to get less frequent. Your brain will eventually sort out all the wierdness with balance and hearing, but it has to be challenged and not protected. Although napping was essential in the early months to get over all the hours of puking and vertigo, I was told to stay awake and active as much as possible - every movement you make helps to remap how you see, balance and move. Kwells travel sickness pills worked better for me than anything else during nasty episodes of vertigo. I haven't taken anything for a year now , which I believe helps your brain to compensate for the change in your balance organ ( instead of masking it). Now getting some hearing directionality back (although almost deaf on one side) but the nasty oversensitivity to certain harsh sounds has gone and I can enjoy live music again. Tinitus is there, loudly before falling asleep, but I know that it's just a helpful sign that "i'll be asleep soon " and not something that will keep me awake. Everyone is different, but things can and do get better. Maybe worth taking some time away from work or reducing hours to make sure you can get plenty of movement in every day ? Might help you to compensate more quickly and make the fullest possible recovery ? As for new treatments, steroid injections seem to be very successful in some patients, without the risk of further hearing loss. I wish i had tried this early on. Worth keeping an eye out for trials in your region... Anyway, best of luck, and look after yourself. I can promise you things will be better in a few months time as the illness "burns out" and you can start to compensate for the damage....

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