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I just dont know how to carry on I hate myself and my life

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    Hi bikerjools49,

    We note from a recent post which you have made to our forum that you may be experiencing thoughts around self-harm. If we have misinterpreted your comments then we apologise for contacting you directly. But if you are having such thoughts then please note that you are not alone in this, and there are people out there that can help.

    If you are having these suicidal thoughts then we strongly recommend you speak to someone who may be able to help. The Samaritans offer a safe space where you can talk openly about what you are going through. They can help you explore your options, understand your problems better, or just be there to listen.

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    jules please message us, whatsapp or facebook. we are here for you xx

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    Dear Bikerjools,

    I know the feeling and I spent a brief period of my life on the bed unable to get up. But for me the spell was broken when my brother told me about having goals. Just babystep goals really. One little thing you can accomplish for that day will be enough to raise your spirits a bit. Then once you get the gist of it you can begin to do more than one thing.

    For me the goal I found that saved me was to work on a painting every day. I'm an artist and had abandoned it for a time.

    Before long my spirits had returned to normal and I had a lot of enthusiasm for life and even was able to do a short run in the morning before settling down with my coffee to work on a painting. And I've been painting all my life ever since then and it sustains me and makes me a happy person.

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    So sorry, that was all I could come up with because it's what helped me. I truly hope you find more helpful ideas on this forum. It's a good one.

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    whatever is wrong if you tell people your head may cope easier, try what have you got to lose? it doesn't matter what it is you now have us intrigued.

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