Symptoms back like a vengence...neasea and bloating awful.....
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Hello ladies
for you girls who know me here at this great forum...ive been quiet for a little while as i thought things were really settling down...ive moved house and job since last time ive been on and it all went well with no heath issues...3 weeks in since the and now the bloating like im getting a period...awful Neasuea 3 days of it with lots if bowel movement...awful discomfort through the night with terrible wind pain....no period for 10 years as no womb...anyone out there the same or simular...when you have nothing bothering for a while you forget how bad it was ...but out of the blue ...again in back to it all....gee whiz..
thx girls...
CK
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karen60759 CarolKelso
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Hey Carol, you have always given me so much encouragement so I'm happy to help you out now you need it!
How long have you been symptom free? its possible that this is just a blip, 3 days is nothing in the overall scheme of things - i've had the most awful 18 months with debilitating sweats, nausea, anxiety and depression. This past month has been the worst - I'm currently on week 3 of symptoms with no break at all - which is unusual as for me as symptoms are usually 2 weeks apart. Its a real struggle to get through each day, no appetite at all, even the thought of drinking herbal tea makes me feel sick. My period is due, but no sign of it- so I'm actually hoping that it won't come as this might explain why I am feeling so awful.
The depression and nausea are the worst - I'm even looking into TMS treatment which would cost £6000 I'm so desperate to feel normal again.
Sorry Carol - I seem to have gone on a rant, just need to reach out to someone today. I'm sure you will be ok, you're though the worst xxx
CarolKelso karen60759
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ah hello darlin
id about 2 to 3 weeks of a break...but before i moved i got awful sinus issue which left me not being able to hear and i was off balance....but in between was getting some headaches but i could manage...my tummy settled during my mood imagine with all the stress. god was in this...
karen hang tight....ive had all you have had and its awful but it will and does subside. get out with friends and socialise even if not up to it as it can consume you if you let it....id family over to see my new home the other night to take my mind of the neasea and it helped my mood...also peeing through the night....4 times last night...it will pass i know but like you needing to vent
6000 pounds karen.....alot of money...seen gp ect ???
CK
mauiblue karen60759
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Hi Karen
Its especially horrid she there is no reprieve. Always a blessing when we get out calmness and clarity of mood. Such a relief. I've gone doo many moons with little to no relief, but it gets better.
We are all on the journey, different ages, and circumstances. .but you are getting there. I've been battling it, but now moreso changing the mindset to acceptance..because it will get better.
Hugs
Xo
mauiblue
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Sorry for the typo blunders
karen60759 mauiblue
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thanks for those words of encouragement Maui, yesterday was awful, the depression and nausea was intense, thankfully my family were around to help, my period then came in the evening and today i've been feeing a bit better, still nauseous though and no appetite - and i'm running a cake sale at my sons school so have spent the morning baking..usually i would be licking up the bowl but today it just had me gagging! hard to believe this is all hormones...but doctors haven't found anything, i even had an endoscopy at the weekend and it showed nothing in my stomach, blood tests normal except for highish fsh, so i'm going to have tms treatment even though its expensive if it relieves this its worth it x
mauiblue karen60759
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Well at least you are soldering on and have the energy for the cake making!
Thats great. High fsh sounds like you might be goin through the shifting.
What is TMS ?
Yep as I've shared with others..the depression,anxiety is always the worst as it clouds who you are. It's very hard to deal with.
Stay strong,
Xo
karen60759 CarolKelso
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hi carol, thanks again for your encouragement, means alot 😃 i had a turning point today,i went to yoga and my appetite came back this afternoon - was so lovely to feel hungry! and i started to feel more relaxed, i doubt it was just the yoga as i excercise everyday but it probably helped to have some time to myself, and right now i feel my symptoms are 80% better than 24 hrs ago, so something must have shifted, its always the way with me, symptoms come and go very acutely, just hope i get some relief for a week or so now, glad to hear you're also feeling better...and yes i might not go for the tms treatment its a bit too much to invest, might put it towards more yoga classes instead x
karen60759 mauiblue
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thanks Maui, yep im not one to lie in bed - i have a 5 and 3 yr old, so i dont have much choice! need to keep active, today im feeling much better so hopefully things have calmed down for a while - tms is magnetic stimulation of brain waves that supposed to really help anxiety and depression, its very expensive though so im keeping it as a last resort x
CarolKelso karen60759
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hi karen....oh glad to hear this ....oh nothing like an appetite as id lost weight and now i just enjoy food when i can.
you will find in time that your symptoms will be further apart and become less....remind yourself of the good days when the bad hits....be kind to yourself and lots of love. CK xoxo
karen60759 CarolKelso
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hey Carol, would you believe it, symptoms back again today 😦 woke up feeling ok, but they around 11am the palpitations - or as i call them 'electric currents' came back and then the anxiety and appetite went, just so hard to cope with the ups and downs - guess this is what is meant by mood swings - do you remember this? i used to get 10 days relief but thats not happening now - is this the peak of it? i really hope so, carol your words of encouragement are everything to me right now - so much love and hugs to you xxxx
CarolKelso karen60759
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yes i was up and down like that and id no let up at times....i just learned to go with it....i know it is hard ...the anxiety it brings makes things worse but at least there are days in between.....
yes the electric shock i totally get and they give you.a fright ...i got them awful at night especially...caused my heart to go off on one and also peeing so much... our hormones play such a role in how we physically and mentally feel. your hormones are up and down trying to possibly regulate themselves so hence feeling days on and off..it may seem relentless but hang tight....its a battle of the mind too as our bodies are trying to. re adjust...remember women in the not so long ago women were sent to assilums as they thought they were going mad. once i posted here that this time for us is like a big ship taking a turn with great magnitude but taking it very slowly.....our bodies and minds are transitioning and its hard....dont let it get the better of you....prayer has been my saving grace and ive called out to jesus and mary and im so glad to be a person of faith....you will get through this girl....the only way is through it...dont let it get the best of you lovey..ill say one for you tonight xxxx ❤
mauiblue CarolKelso
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Hi Carol
missed you on the forum
Nice to see you. I've been on n offf as well..just day by day.
Moving and new job is incredibly stressful. I dread having to move in the spring..
Xoxo
CarolKelso mauiblue
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ah hello Karen...
moving took my mind of things to be honest....my wind and neasea have settled down again and feeling more like myself.. .yes a blip as you said but good to know ive. got this place...oh karen ive had like you scope down my tummy etc and all tests done with nothing wrong. moving took me away from here as packing was crazy ect but getting settled now.
karen this will all pass lovey....when you get a break from it and the symtoms come back you. get a fright as you forget how hard and bad they can be....menopause is so underrated but we are blessed to know and live in an era of technology where we can share...Karen this will pass....i know it will as my episodes are shorter with longer spaces in between ...thank you for reassuring me when i needed it....hang tight sister....CK XOXO