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I've been seeing a man for a few months now. He lives in another city so we only see eachother when he visits every few weeks. We have had sex a few times now with no problem. When we first had sex my LS was in pretty good condition. I was using my emu oil down there and no really obvious white patches. Sex hurt a little only once - we didn't use lube and he is circumcised, so overall it was a success. I know in future we will have to invest in lube though.
My problem is that currently I am having a pretty bad flare up. I couldnt entertain the idea of sex atm because I am in torment down there however I am developing those small white patches in other areas and theyre now pretty obvious. And I hadnt told my sexual partner about it yet, because it wasnt a problem before. But now I feel like I am going to have to bring the topic up and this was something I was worried about upon diagnosis. He will be returning soon and I know I am going to have to bring the subject up with him, but obviously I have some reservations and worries.
Finding somebody who wanted to be with me still after me saying "Heeey... so i have this condition that is going to look pretty weird, probably make sex pretty difficult at some point and maybe eventually impossible one day. But im still a great catch!" I know I have more to offer a partner than just my vagina but I feel strongly that relationships need a positive and healthy sex life and I have to wonder how many people would walk into a relationship with LS. I know anybody who walks away isnt worth my time..but I think I need to hear some success stories of being accepted and maybe just some support incase I'm not! And maybe tips on how you told your sexual partner?
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