Terrified of losing health and fitness!
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Hi everyone.
i have really benefited from this forum already (I am 6 days post op) and am hoping to get further support
I have always been a complete health nut- going to the gym 6 days a week, competing in fun runs, studying health a nutrition and eating a really clean diet. I am now terrified my life as I know it is over and I will become overweight, inactive and old. Worried that I will overdo things and cause damage too. I feel like I am no longer in control and already feeling down. Any advice or encouragement would be much appreciated.
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Meldrew1 josie98938
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josie98938 Meldrew1
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Best wishes to you on your journey
joy47826 josie98938
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My life was exercising and I'm 76 now and all that has changed, but I don't beat myself up and work on acceptance of what is NOW.....
You can do the same and you are only 6 days post op.....you have a long way to go baby....
I'm 4 yrs post op next month and do have complications from the anterior procedure but deal with them....don't like them, but again that Acceptance word...
Fighting it all does nothing, we lose more....so continue on your good path but if you have restrictions, then you will.
I do a lot of meditation and use certain Mantra's to put into my brain...works good in my body and brain.....see ya and talk along the path.j
josie98938 joy47826
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meditation is one thing I haven't tried but always wanted to- any advice on how to get started?
Cheers
josie
lorraine46575 josie98938
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josie98938 lorraine46575
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kaleani75551 josie98938
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ceboyd josie98938
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Having said that, I'm still being pretty active but have had to use the cane on my hikes. I just bought a girls bike so I can do easy rides.
Your nutrition lifestyle will come in handy and you'll eventually be able to do the Gym. You'll likely be advised of the negatives of running, up to you after that. Maybe try hiking while you decide on that and get stronger.
josie98938 ceboyd
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eileen64__UK josie98938
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You are in the early stages.....as for becoming inactive and old ....well inactive...thats up to you {a bit further along the line} Old....we hve no choice LOL....just make sure you are old and healthy. At the moment I would say no gym.....but do the exercises given to you by your physio....6 weeks on you should be able to look at exercising but I was told no high impact....keep it low impact
You're going to be eating well, exercising {not as much as before...take it step by step} and be positive....never think I cant or if you do think I cant do this, in the early stages think but I CAN do it this way....Adapting your way of doing some things.
I dont know where you live or if you were watching TV yesterday morning....an 88 year old lady {I only caught the end of it} was talking and she sat down....on the side of her leg first then onto her bottom and said you notice that I sit down a funny way but thats because I've got 2 metal hips, and pins and scres and a plate in one ankle which has been fractured 33 times She had been a ballet dancer.
She then proceded to show us her" limbering up in the morning" exercises
Sitting on the floor she pushed pboth legs out and did the splits
She then lay down and lifted her leg and pulled it over her head and it touched the floor on the other side, did it with the other leg....apparently she does that and the splits one every morning a few times to loosen up.
AT 88!!!!!!! so if thats not encouragement I dont know what is LOL
I could never do the splits before I had THR's so I'm not going to try now
Love
Eileen
carole07703 eileen64__UK
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josie98938 eileen64__UK
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you r fab
would love to be able to so the splits but can't see it lol!
eileen64__UK carole07703
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It was amazing but we should never compare ourselves to others....we are all unique and like I say couldnt do the splits before THR's so certainly not going to try now
Love
Eileen
eileen64__UK josie98938
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It would be great if we could do them but we can ...so what....we do what we can the best way we can LOL.....I get frustrated being on crutches 7 and a half months on but at least if I cant walk very far I can drive....so throw the crutches in the back and off I go
Love
Eileen
ceboyd eileen64__UK
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josie98938 eileen64__UK
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eileen64__UK josie98938
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I do get frustrated.......I managed my OA and scoliosis OK because they were chronic and I knew I had to find ways around doing things....still things I cant do...like vacumming.....hubby does that for me. Lifting heavy thigs {this is because of spinal problems}
But this fracture leaves me frustrated because it is supposed to heal....the spinal problems arent {if you understand what i mean} Sometimes I'm OK other times I have to have a bit of a rant
Take care
Eileen