Testicle pain, blue balls?

Hello everyone, I am 21 years old, I had never had a girlfriend before I started dating my current one, it's been 1 and a half years, so I hadn't had a girlfriend until i was 19/20.

We dated online until this weekend, it was the first time we saw each other in person, it was amazing, but there was a problem, on the first day that we spent together around the end of it, i started to have a lot of testicle pain, specially on my left one, the pain would spread to the lower abdomen and a bit in the lower back, I got super scared and uncomfortable so I went home, she stayed with her family at the hotel, when I got home I layed down and spread my legs which made it a lot more calm, I was freaking out (I have health anxiety so this stuff kicks in fast), talked with my parents and they said "you are a virgin, it's your first girlfriend, you're young it's normal" doesn't feel normal for me though, I had a lot of boners through out the day, but that was it, I also hadn't masturbated in a week before that. So on the night of that day I masturbated and the pain stopped, I slept fine and woke up fine.

On the second day we went out and we did it for our first time, we lost our virginity. No pain or anything after that either. After spending the whole day together I went home to sleep and was starting to hurt again, but just a bit, so I masturbated again, and slept well.

On the other day (today) after spending the whole day with her till 5pm it started to hurt a lot again, so I had to go home. I did have a lot of boners again today.

Is this normal? Would it happen even after ejaculating 3 times in less than 2 days? I am scared, I feel like my health anxiety pays a big role on the pain but idk.

Things to note, I checked for lumps, doesn't seem to have any, torsion doesn't sound like either as it wouldn't have stopped hurting.

Also hurts when I make strength like sh**ting.

Can someone tell me if it happened to any of you before?

Also, I am so easily excitable, just thinking about the smallest things gives me a boner, even thinking about having a boner does it. Also I am always extremely horny.

And on the second topic, my penis can get super hard like way too hard, when we were doing our first time, it was complicated as hardly any position would work since I couldn't bend my penis down, is there a way to be less hard? It makes it complicated, my girlfriend said she liked it, but it's so hard to find comfortable positions.

Thank you in advance.

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