Thanks for listening about my hrt

This is a hard time...I remember when my kids were little and women especially whose children were older would say to me..."oh I miss those days" and they would have these lost sad faces..I never got it...but now today with two off at college and my last in his senior year I am like...oh,..okay I get it now..! Lots of transition during this time of life..lots! I am glad you have this website to see what else is going on and that we are all going through it, this helps a great deal for sure! Good luck to you!

 

Sorry to hear all this goin on in your life..:'(..I have had to deal with divorce and my ex turned my two boys against me so goin from full time mom to nothing has really hit me and then comes the peri to visit as well....These ladies on here are wonderful and help keep me somewhat sane!!!!!If thats possible....lol...Hope things get better for you soon...this is a great place to get all this off your chest and lots of support.....sending hugs

Hi Louise  why do men ( some ) behave like they do,Last thing any female wants,bide your time and get rid ,he's got problem to drink like that.

    You stay close to us ,good that you do .

Once your children are settled,you can regroup and think what you then want for rest of your life to happen ,plenty of fish in the sea ,don't settle for what you've got at present,he must pull you down ,would do me.

  You been with him long. ? 

  Good to get in women chats when your menopause,gets the bad days out of the way. You stay strong hey .glad patches helping,never give up ever Big hug xxx

Hi louise, i'm so sorry to hear your having such a hard time, I'm obviously in peri and having all the unusual dibilitating symptoms which is in its seft enough to cope with but i do have a supportive husband but i do understand about the loneliness, my son has left home, my mother died when i was 17 and my sister who's 4 years older than me just avoids me, i think she thinks i'm making all this up cos she has had nothing, her periods just stopped.  I also feel for you with a drinking husband as i was a PA to a alcholic for 9 year and he was making me ill.  You must do what ever is best for you and the patches are helping thats all good cos at this stage in your life you need something to get you through these hard times so lift your head up and tell yourself you can do it, were all with you on here and i have had so much support from everyone so you will too.  keep talking to us it will help.  sending you a comforting hug x

Hi Louise,

which patches did you choose that are helping you so well? Got Doctors appointment to discuss my perhaps changing over to the patches instead of the HRT tablets which I am at the present taking! 

Massive hugs to you sweets and remember you can always come here as these ladies are all so lovely and supportive and will go out of their way to help! 

Great to know the patches are working for you.  About your kids, it must not be easy when the nest gets empty but at least you get the grandkids...  someday, right. Sorry to know about your partner, I hope you can figure it out.  Hgs.