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I have read from numerous sources that once you first get RA, if you manage to get it under control before you have a erosions in your hands, there is a chance that your condition will go into remission and not to bother you again.
but if you continue to push yourself and do have a erosions then there is no chance of remission and a good chance that it will spread to other regions of your body.
The reason I am asking this is because when I first felt this condition in my fingers, and could barely move them, I knew there was something terribly wrong and that I would do permanent damage if I continued to work at my job, in which I am on the computer all day long, my company overworking me 10 to 11 hours a day of intense computer work. I was fairly new to the workforce and did not have much money. The doctor did not diagnose me properly, I still felt I needed to come off work in order to not damage my hands permanently.
My parents basically forced me to stay at work for six months, I did bad damage to my hands and erosions and now my fingers are not only messed up but it is spread to my wrists as well.
my dad still will not admit that he did anything wrong, for three years now and I am beginning to hate him for it. I can't forget that they turn their back on me at such a critical time in my life, but for him to still be defending his position.
my parents are quite well off as well, still would not support me for a month or two until I figured out what the real problem was and got better. A Month or two for the rest of my life is all I asked.
how can I not only forget what they did, but forgive them also? Especially when my dad is still such a dick.
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