Think I'm depressed but feel selfish, don't want to be judged etc.
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First of all, I'm really struggling what to write. I keep writing things, then deleting it.
People always say to me I never smile and I always moan and similar things. I've kept the way I've properly felt to myself, until now. What's finally pushed me further is, I decided to start writing stuff on my phone to vent my feelings and that, and it ended up being over 2500 words long during which I broke down into full on crying, which is a first time for years. I've done this before, but never this long and only got a bit teary. I'm thinking going to my GP, because I can now say that the dentist mentioned depression could be a cause for my jaw discomfort, where as before I would have felt stupid to just say "I think I'm depressed" (I know stupid isn't the right word but yeah). But I still feel really selfish because I know there are people much worse off than me. And also, I feel like, now my exams are pretty much over (final one in a few hours, which I've hardly prepared for at all), that I'm just looking for a way out, when the reality is I've felt like this for quite a while now.
Another thing I feel like I should meantion is, a few years ago I had a bad break up which led to me doing something very stupid, that I regret massively. I had counselling for a while, but was never diagnosed with anything and that was that. And, reading it's genetic, one of my grandparents is/was depressed.
Also, I feel like people are going to judge me if it does turn out I am depressed, or something similar.
I've tried to keep it breif, but was wondering if anyone had anything to say to any of that? I know some stuff there is cliche from what I've read on other forums and things, but that's how I feel.
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johnsnow
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Annika34 johnsnow
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I have suffered depression for years alone and finally went to the doctors last November. Opening up in itself is a relief. I have attended counselling alongside medication which has been great, it's surprising what you will open up and say in a safe environment. Although the medication isn't a magic wand making everything better it makes it more bearable.
I did open up to my family, my parents brought us up as you don't share that sort of thing but unless you are honest people won't understand why you might find it difficult to do things. I tend to avoid talking on the phone, going out ect.
As for memory and sleep it all goes with it.
I have realized the people that care and love you will support you
Please phone your doctor
angela94941 Annika34
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angela94941 johnsnow
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Annika34 angela94941
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Thankyou for highlighting why I have avoided these sites before
To highlight my point, don't suffer in silence, see your GP and counselling has its place