Thoughts please
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I can't get a picture/thought out of my head, its been there since early hours of this morning. It is to go to where my husbands ashes were spread go into the water and float face down so I can join him. I know this would solve a lot of my feelings and depression but would pass these bad emotions onto my son and grandchildren which I don't want to do. Do I go there tomorrow and face this then hopefully get it out of my head?
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Tara13579 tina89895
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My heart goes out to you. I can only imagine the pain you're feeling. As much as you want to end your life and as weak as you feel right now, I have to let you know that you have a huge responsibility to those children. Your job now is to make sure your husband's legend lives on in a positive way for your childrens sake. Seeing their mother sad is okay but you need to get right back up and show them what strength looks like. I wish I could give you a big hug! Please lean on friends and family and never give up. Sending hugs!
tina89895 Tara13579
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I know I've got to be strong but I keep getting these thoughts I try so hard to do postive things but they keep coming back. I have been close a few times but my thoughts of the grandchildren have stopped me. I just wish they wouldn't keep coming back. My son does not know about the sucicidal tendancies as he has been struggling too, so I don't want to put more pressure on him.
I don't want to give up either....
Tara13579 tina89895
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Tara13579 tina89895
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Xanax is a fast acting medication for anxiety/depression that you would use along with your other anti-depressant. It is known to be addictive but is an amazing medication for eliminating suicidal thoughts immediately. Maybe ask your GP about it?
tina89895 Tara13579
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Chik07 tina89895
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Do you have anything to help sleep, I have zopiclone sleeping pills which I take about twice a week, had to have one last night to block out the horrid thoughts about not beings able to say happy new year to my dad. Hope your feeling a bit calmer today xxx
katecogs tina89895
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Sorry to hear you're having a tough time. Often we get strange thoughts and impulses when our minds are tired, and I'm sure if you just let the thought be there, it'll go, however upsetting it is at the moment. It helps to visit, sit, talk, cry, or just being there. Do you have a really close friend you can confide in? I know your son is suffering too, but talking together would be good for you both. Maybe you could both go visit your husbands ashes ......
Thinking of you x
tina89895 katecogs
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I actually slept quite well last night for a change, woke up having bad dreams but did get to sleep again quite quick. A quiet day today didn't go out as its been snowing on and off. Planning to go tomorrow, felt quite calm today for a change and head has been empty. So all in all not a too bad a day so far. X
Tara13579 tina89895
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katecogs tina89895
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Snow ... I love walking in the snow. Hope you're able to get out tomorrow. It's drizzling here today and quite grey. Tomorrow I'm out walking with a friend with lunch too (forecast is sunny). Time to dig my walking boots out (New Years resolution is to go walking on Sundays) :-)
Enjoy your day xxx
tina89895 katecogs
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Hope you have a good walk tomorrow and a nice lunch. I really enjoy the fresh air too.
I completed my trip in sunshine and blue sky, It was successful as I came back but have not really sorted out my head. Written a lot of stuff down sitting by the loch to try and sort myself out. Will discuss with councillor a week Tuesday.
Maybe the stress of christmas and new year are triggering these weird dreams. At least they're not nightmares.
tina xx
phatmarisa tina89895
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