Tip of Penis Inflamed Red Swollen

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Hey Guys,

Going through posts over the years I’ve seen many guys experience this problem but with no real answer or conclusion. Hopefully it’s because peoples condition healed and they just never returned to this website.

Regardless, I thought I’d start a new thread

My Story: I had sex with a women I met one night, who I later found out was an escort.

She gave me oral sex, then I used a condom during intercourse.

I fell asleep straight after sex, forgetting to get up and go to the bathroom to wash and pee like i normally do.

A day later the tip of my penis (meatus) was red I didn’t think much of it. I presumed it was some friction burn. Days later the redness didn’t go away and I was experiencing pelvic pain and the urge to pee. At one period my Lymph nodes in my groin and neck felt tight for a few days. This was all very stressful and depressing for me

Fast forward 2 months, I’ve tested negative to all Blood and urine tests you can think of, ultrasounds and x-rays, and been on several antibiotics and anti fungal creams. I’ve been to 2 GP Doctors, and 1 Top urologist. All who said my penis looked normal, and that these symptoms would go away over time.

Obviously there is no comfort In that, especially when I’m 100% positive something is going on. My penis never looked the way it does, nor have I ever experienced these pelvic pains or urge to urinate. I always had a very strong bladder, never needing to go to the bathroom more than twice a day. Now I’m peeing at least 5 times a day.

The redness is still there and flares up with any sexual activity, but you only notice it when I’m flaccid. And i am still experiencing mild pelvic pain.

I have never had any symptoms of any stinging, blood, visible coloured discharge, odour, painful ejaculation,blisters, warts or sores.

I’m not so bothered by the physical appearance of this condition, for me it’s the discomforting (pelvic and bowl region) pain. That’s my main issue and cause for concern. I also don’t want to have something and unknowingly pass it on to a future partner

There is no male test for HPV so that’s a possibility.

Not sure if it’s an uncircumcised penis thing? A lot of guys with the same issue seem to be uncircumcised. If circumcision was the answer, I’d do it

Has anyone tried any other treatment. CBD or peptide creams for inflammation?

I’d love to hear other people’s experiences. And by chance, if there are any people who have overcome this unfortunate problem.

Much Appreciated

Update: i have cut caffeine out of my diet, and the pelvic pains have stopped. The Caffeine must have irritated my stomach. image

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    I read your story carefully ... I can say that I am going through this situation too (...)A year ago I had contact with a girl I had been in a relationship with for 5 years

    usually after ejaculation I wiped myself with a paper towel and took a shower. unfortunately that evening I didn't wash and in the morning when I went to urinate I noticed that the meat is red and slightly inflamed, I didn't pay much attention but from that moment the problems started

    In the weeks that followed, urination and ejaculation began to burn, the flesh was red

    during all this time I wore tight clothes and I had the feeling of rubbing I think this was also a cause that made the situation worse

    finally I got to the urologist I did urethral secretion test and uroculture

    uroculture came out well but in urethral secretion it came out that I have Staphylococcus aureus

    I underwent antibiotic treatment and in the end I got rid of the sting but I was left with sequelae

    the skin of the flesh is wrinkled and scarred and the glans of the penis is sensitive similar to yours

    I have to go to a dermatologist to ask for an opinion but I feel that I am no longer the man I was before this problem

    The doctor told me that everything was fine, but the scars on my flesh were creating a bad condition. I hope to find a solution to this problem

    I hope I was helpful to you except me

    • Posted

      Hey mate,

      thanks for the reply. want to start of saying you should not feel any less of a man, things happen in life beyond our control. And you should be happy you don't have any more painful symptoms. as for the scars are they still sensitive? i have not experienced any sensitivity

    • Posted

      I was left with a sensitivity to the glans and I am very stressed that the urinary meatus is scarred (...)

  • Posted

    hey noah hope things turned out well in the end for you?

    please look at your message from me and see if we can share our experience,im in a very similar situation

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