Tired

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I’m 16 weeks post op and I am so tired. I’ve been working hard at my PT, I’m at a 103 degree bend but still have cramps at night time. I’m still on muscle relaxers. My last PT i was so sore, i couldn’t walk, i had to take a pain pill to walk. I work full time and I’m so tired out, my back hurts. I’m worried i won’t get any more pain meds. i tried X Tylenol and that barely takes the edge off.  My knee aches and i feel the scar tissues, think that’s what that is, it makes it hard to walk, like it gets hung up. I’m happy for the vast improvement since i started PT but i am so tired. I can’t evwn rest after work, i feel like i have restless leg syndrome. Any suggests how to relax and the pain will help. 

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    Four to six months is a very typical time to go back to work but if you've been doing that BEFORE 16 weeks then no wonder you feel tired.  People who go back at 3 months, or sooner, report experience pain, swelling, fatigue, sleeplessness and more.  All very typical of resuming work before dealing with three important factors:

    1. Regaining your 0 / +120 ROM.  That's so essential to resuming a normal life.

    2. Rebuilding your atrophied quads, gutes, core and more...all the muscles that support the knee...for normal walking and stair climbing.

    3. Realizing that all the energy in your body is being directed to healing the knee...not much left over for a day's work.

    All of these factors and more will contribute to a less than ideal experience when returning to work.  Sounds like you are experiencing the full slate.  If there is no chance of taking time off to let the knee heal more and for you to rebuild all those dead muscles, you can still do a few things like:

    - Reduce the amount of time on your feet at work.

    - Negotiate a phased return.

    - Immediately start the muscle rebuild program to support the new knee to take the pressure off of it.

    - Set up your bedroom as a good sleep environment; get to bed earlier than normal; no electronics.

    - Eat very healthy (protein, complex carbs), get rid of artificial sweeteners, hydrate A LOT.  Body needs energy.

    - Use some dyphenhydramine (generic Benedryl, 50 mg) to get you drowsy (check for interactions)

    - Or try some Melatonin (3-5 mg) for sleep.

    - If the muscle relaxers aren't helping, try a different one (Flexeril, ex)

    - I've had RLS for years.  I mg Xanax (Alprazolam) 15 minutes before bed stops the leg tremors for me.

    - Your doc can help adjust the night meds to get you to sleep and stay that way...everyone's different.

    - Use a cane if you have to at work for a while to take the pressure off the knee.

    Remember that four months is still on the road to what is usually a one-year recovery.  If you expect too much too soon, it just screws with your head.  You cannot force a knee to heal.  It cannot be pushed no matter what your mind says.  It is the most Zen of surgeries: The Knee will be better when it's better.  Any other mindset will just cause you more suffering.

    In the end, there are only three things you have at your disposal: time, work and patience.  Give the knee time to heal, do all the ROM and muscle rebuild work, and have a lot of patience with your recovery.  At 2+ years post-op, I can tell you it was all worth it...even it doesn't seem that way at four months.  Time, work and patience...

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      i have a good PT regime. All your advice is so spot on, thank you. 

      I’m scheduled to see a Neorologist for my leg cramps, and will mention the xanax. 

      In all my 57 years, i have never experienced anything as tough as this recovery. 

      Thank you again. 

  • Posted

    Oh boy!! 16 weeks back at full time work is super hard after TKR! I am not surprised you're tired, exhausted more like!

    Slow down!! Do a little less! Give yourself a break from all of this! If you have to work, fine but ease off in other ways. Do the majority of your exercises at the weekend! Just keep ticking over during the working week! Don't exercise to the point where you need painkillers just to walk!! You should 'feel' your muscles have been working, you should not be in pain! No wonder you get cramps! I get cramps in my legs if I do too much! When it happens try to walk it out & drink plenty of fluids, dehydration can also cause cramps! Guilty M'lud! been there done that!!

    Do you live alone?  If so, just let the housework go for a while! You can catch up when you feel a bit more like it! If you're not on your own, get them to help at home! Please look after yourself!

    The thing is tkr recovery isn't just about getting your mobility back, although that is a huge part of it, you also need to recover from a long & brutal surgery & that affects us all differently!

    Don't try to do it all by yourself, sometimes the hardest part is admitting when we need help. Family members & friends will gladly take up the slack if they know how hard this all is for you! 

    So I'm giving you the day off! If you HAVE to go to work, do that, but when you get home, here's a thing,  Do Nothing! Get a takeaway, ice & elevate your knee & have an early night .... let go, look after yourself & have a night off of being the one everyone else turns to! Try to have at the very least one night to yourself in the week!

    Take off the cape & the tiny skirt & r e l a x.

    Go on I dare you!!

    Marilyn 

    XX

    • Posted

      thank you! this really helps, I felt i was way behind, I felt I should be doing more by now, it’s frustrating. I am just in too much of a rush to get well.  i just have to let my messy home go! I always want to box up everything at home and throw all away! lol 

      thx again 

    • Posted

      Leave everything you can until 6 months post op! I was very tired up until 6 months and while that seems a long time your body is busy working very hard to heal your knee and leg!

      It's hard to accept limitations but this is just a chapter in your life.

      You sound like you are doing very well... I found mindfulness really useful. breathing with full lung breaths to help my whole body relax. Music. Anything that is enjoyable and makes you feel good. Swelling is the most likely cause of stiffness. It continues to go down, and improve. Even up to a year!

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      There is no "should" in TKRville...the word has been stricken from the lexicon.  There are no timetables or schedules that apply to any one particular person.  Your knee controls your recovery.  There are only three tools at your disposal: time, work and patience.  Give the knee time to heal...do all the ROM work and exercise to rebuild all the supporting musculature to support the knee...and have patience.  This cannot be rushed...do it and the knee bites you back...hard.  It takes a year...accept it...own it.

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      Yeah I think tbh we ALL go into this believing the surgeons when they say you'll be back at work in 6 weeks & the worst will be over! How many orthopods do you know who have actually HAD TKR themselves??

      When I left work before my 1st TKR (right knee) I told my boss, 'oh I'll be back in about 5 to 6 weeks!' He just smiled!!

      I went back at 12 weeks 2 mornings a week on very light duties (in the end)! After having swelling problems, having spent the morning climbing up & down from a step stool to get patient records!!

      I remember looking around at the dust in my living room at about 3 weeks & getting the duster out!! I paid for it!

      This time around I just picked up my kindle!!

      TKR, if it teaches anything, teaches patience! And to some suffering!! 

      Go with the flow, try to relax & be kind to yourself.

      Marilyn 

      XX

    • Posted

      If the docs told you the absolute truth about the level of pain you would have to endure, the amount of work it would take to get back your ROM and rebuild your muscles, the seemingly endless sleepless nights, that you would most likely not be able to return to work in decent shape for 4-6 months, the distinct possibility of post-operative depression, all the other pain you would likely experience because you would change the way you walk, how difficult stairs would be for a long while, the way the opioids whack you out and constipate the hell out of you...all this and more...  If they told you all of this in advance...

      No sane person would consent to the TKR!!!

      Then they'd have to sell all their condos in Acapulco...

  • Posted

    I tried to go back to work at 4 months but they told me to go away and give it it another month😂 I'm glad they did that, I went back at 5 months but the first two weeks I was so tired, it was like hitting a brick wall and I was only doing 4 hours a day. I'm 7 months now and managing full duties and full time hours do it does get better x

  • Posted

    I tried everything for aches and pains. I finally found something that works!! CBD lotion! It's unbelievable, it really works. It's expensive but it is worth it!!

    • Posted

      Try finding THE REAL STUFF..."Lotion".  Available in certain states at certain locations by certain people with a certain medical card.  The synergy of the whole-plant chemistry and not just the extraction of the oil component is what makes the therapy really work.  Best topical on the planet.  If you love the oil, you will go bonkers for the "Lotion".

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