Tired living in this world

Today My husband stressed me because his temper. I wanted to learn drive but he can't control his temper.

And when I said I can't repeat Something he ask me if I wanna get divorce. And that's make me so sad.

I'm thinking that's he use to get divorced because he been divorced for 3times.

I don't know what to say anymore!!!! I can't talk anybody especially my relative because I don't want them worry about me..

Hi sara..   Im so sorry that you are going through such an ordeal..  You are a good mum taking care of 3 children,  that takes courage and strength to start with.   Have you ever visited a counsellor sarah?   Some times just talking about things and receiving some form of support can help you a long way.   You are not alone sweetheart,  lots of us go through the same things without help from family BUT we eventually find that safe place where we can move on from the past to a happier future.   Please let us all know how you are doing ok.  BIG HUGS xx

His 3 previous marriages are not your fault. I think he is looking at his 4th. Get out of the marriage and get legal help to support them. If he is not faithful then no true marriage exists. Learn from your mistakes and dint repeat them.

Give yourself a break will you!  3 kids under 4 is enough to knacker superwoman let alone any human.  No wonder you are so tired.  Can your husband do more to help around the home or can you afford to pay for some help? 

Surely you are happy to have your 3 children?  Life hasn't been all bad to you has it?   Would you contemplate leaving them alone?  Could you?   If you didn't wake up that's what would happen.  You would be giving your babies a lifetime of pain. 

Sometimes in life we just have to try and see the good in it and try not to concentrate on the negative.  If you are in the UK you should be able to get help to leave him.  If you are  elsewhere I don't know. 

Do you go to English classes?  You need to make plans to learn what you need to and put your energies into your future.  Not easy and I think your husbands a rat but it's not a new story is it?   Take care. 

 

Hi Sara - sorry to read of your situation. I'm wondering what country you are living in at present? Also, are all the kids his? Things are not going to get better unless you act. This means you need to research where to go for help. If he is offering a divorce then take it. You say he has been cheating on you, is not loyal, and has a temper. He has also asked if you want a divorce, which seems to be his go-to position when he wants a change. Those three divorces have one thing in common - him. You will not change him, and I would suggest that things will only get worse if you continue the marriage. Remember to make sure he is responsible for the kids welfare if you leave. Also, blaming someone else - Jesus for instance is not going to chnage anything. Action is required and it's up to you to make that move. Also, what country did you move from? Is there a club or group of fellow countrymen/woman anywhere a near you that can connect with? You need a safety network of people who will help - and they won't come looking for you. You have to find them. Go for it.

hello sara

i am so sorry to hear about the things you have to go through.. 

agar ap kisi aesi jagha pr rehteen hain jahan divorce lena mushkil hai tou i can understand k ap kesa feel kr rhe hoon gi  

learning english is not a big deal . please do not stress your self over it. its just language. what i felt ur problem is that ypu are not having fun in anything and you are not happy about your self. what your husband is doing is not forgivable or forgettable. but honey he does not care. just throw him out of your life... dnt give your control ur hapiness to him. he does not deserve this. ask help from LORD . i hope you feel good