Total diffrent person on alcohol

A lot of people change when they drink and yes, it may not have affected you early in life, but prolonged exposure to alcohol can chemically change people.

There are various mentalhealth problems associated with drinking, especially it impairs a healthy eating habit.

Just like everything else in life, that is bad for you,it will eventually catch up with you. Some are more resistent/resillient than others, just depends on the person.

I never believed I changed either until my husband at the time tape recorded me.

​He kept saying I was "mean".  I was NEVER a "mean" drunk.  But, when they would try to take my drinks away so I couldn't have them...he said I became VICIOUS and escpecially to my kids.  I didn't believe it.

​He taped it...and for sure he was right.  That was a real eye opener for me. You should has your girlfriend to tape you when she thinks you are being "cheeky"...so you can hear it for yourself.  It will definetly change how you think about drinking.

Just stop drinking, and u will be happy again.

Yes I used to be a normal drinker but something changed they it's progressive. I wish I could help you I feel so sad for anyone going through this. We don't mean any harm but we are not are selfes when we've reached that point. They say we have to let go of our guilt or it will bring us back to drunk. I say if give up you'll never know - but that only worked for 10 days for me and I told myself I could be a normal drinker again. HaHa. Nope - just be kind to yourself that's all I'm trying to do

Hi kevin..quite normal and we all start becoming clever know it all and do not speak to me since I always know best...(when i am drunk this is!!) what to say?? try drinking less but I do not know at all what your issues are and how much you drink daily or weekly..best of luck Robin