Trying to raise awareness

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To all UK Guardian readers, I've just e-mailed a piece about LS to the 'My life in Sex,' column. Let's hope they print it! I'm trying to raise awareness.

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    That is great! I just had a doctor tell me I could have it worse. 😣 I think we all need to be more aware that many docs are very insensitive to our problem. The more awareness that this exists the more that other women who have no support system will hopefully find groups like this. I am in the US but somehow found you guys. I am SO thankful for all of you. Also my biopsy came back negative for cancer so thank you (all of you who gave me your sweet wishes) for your support! I am the person whose twin 5 yr old granddaughters have it also. Thank you!!

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      Hello Galen I am celebrating you not having cancer 🎉🎉🎉 the sign of a strong woman. 

      Though I am saddened n horrified to hear of your granddaughters   Again I 🙏🏻 Your girls will grow and get rid of this ugly 👹 condition 🙏🏻💖🙏🏻💖

      My consultant once told me LS rarely leads to Cancer tho cancer can lead to LS   🤷???

      Love 💕 

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      Interesting, as my doctors told me this can cause cancer?  Is your consultant a vulva specialist?  It seems that in the UK you have more of those.  I wonder who is right????  I hate that they say different things?

      Thank you for your comments!!

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      Galen I was diagnosed with LS almost 16 years ago and still remember the words ‘no cure’ 

      I was devastated and lonely  

      I will not let this ugly sneaky condition get me down. 

      With the advice of my present consultant Professor Sean Kehoe, I like his straight talking no frills information, and feel at last I am speaking to someone I trust. 

      The conventional treatment for LS has not changed in decades 

      There is no money for research that is just how it is.  

      It is only with the help of this forum I found out about new and sometimes wacky treatments. 

      I mean, who first thought of trying a laundry agent like Borax to bathe their ‘ladyships ‘ in 😱

      But it helps some people including me 😊

      Thank goodness for this forum 🇬🇧🍀🇬🇧🍀

      Hey ho you don’t know until you try 

    • Posted

      Wow Borax? That's a new one. Yes this forum is amazing. Thank you!

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      I started a thread nearly 2 years ago upon my arrival in Vietnam. I needed to find an alternative to the steroids as I didn't know if I would be able to get them easily here. Anyway, it was using borax to treat my LS and it's been very successful for myself and many. Check out the thread Experiment with Borax.

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      Brilliant Alistar good to hear of your success using Borax too 👍🏻

      Love Borax but am mindful this is a laundry agent ??

      Using a portable bidet I use 3 litres of warm to hot water, and add 2 teaspoon of 20 Mule Team Borax which is 99.9% pure. 

      Bit of trial n error to get it just right for you.  Better too Little initially  as I found to my cost 🔥

      Now I love it and use it 2 times a week and everything is calm and has been for a quite while now 

      Too much will burn !! So best to do add Borax gradually and test each time so you feel comfortable. 

      ?? Borax 

      Ps anyone used it for laundry 😂

  • Posted

    Brilliant. Well done and I hope they print it. I will look out for it. I really think there should be more awareness of LS and more research. As one who has suffered a casual attitude from doctors I am wanting the medical profession to appreciate the impact it has on us. 
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    Let us know B o S when it is published 🎉🙏🏻

    In meantime if you need any info from the LS Army I am sure there are many, I for one who will step up to the mark and be counted 

    Well done indeed 🥇😘

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    Good job, Bridge of Sighs. Would you mind sharing the link to your letter once it is published? I am in Canada but I would love to read it. I also have entertained the thought of putting something out there in the public domain. Still thinking about it for the moment... : ) My doctor has not been very accessible and, based on all the testimonials I've read here, did not provide me with the best advice to stop the LS from progressing so quickly. Luckily, I learned a few things from the ladies on this site and find their combined knowledge and experience with LS a much greater help than my gyno has been. I think we really do need to advocate for improvements to the system and better treatment for (mainly) post-menopausal women.

    Metta

     

  • Posted

    Here's a multiple answer to all the comments below...

    I don't know if or when they will print it, I've never written to a paper before, but if I see it, or know about it I will make sure that the link goes up here. Could other Guardian readers also keep an eye out too please, our local shop sometimes sells out before we get there. They haven't responded to tell me they've got it.

    Sedg, the one thing an otherwise useless consultant told me, was to think of LS like diabetes. It won't go away but it can be managed so that you have a routine and otherwise forget that it's there most of the time. That really helped me to reframe how I think about it. And Borax is just great. It's revolutionised my life.

    I've posted this on other threads, but yesterday I had a check up by the new, brilliant doctor I've found. She's a GP but her speciality is skin. She was thrilled with my progress. She says that she sees LS so often that she now thinks that nearly every post-menopausal woman will get it to some degree at some point in their lives. She is really angry at the ignorance and the fact that most doctors think it's rare. I gave her the link to the 'Experiment with Borax' thread and she said if/when she gets LS she'll definitely use it herself. She says that medicine often follows natural remedies, and she'll put other patients in touch with me (I offered) as the worst thing is the loneliness and isolation. Obviously being banned in the UK she has to be careful what she says.

    galen, I am so sorry to hear about your granddaughters. That's so hard, to have it so young. I've heard that as hormones start to develop, it can go away. I hope that's the case for them.

    Awareness; I've posted this before, and elsewhere recently, but a couple of years ago I went on an awareness crusade. Thinking that pharmacists were the first port of call for itching or painful sex, I marched into any pharmacy with a female pharmacist and told them about LS. I was shocked at how many didn't know about it. The younger ones were the most open and a couple said they'd go away and research it. The older women tended to pretend they knew all about it and obviously didn't. If anyone is up to it, I reckon there's work to do there. I might start another crusade. This time I'll have a printed sheet to give out with links to sites and general advice on symptoms, which I can leave behind. I contacted the Pharmacists supervisory body and offered to do a CPD talk, but they weren't interested, I didn't even get a polite 'No thank you.'

    This site is a life saver. Thank you to all you lovely women who write here. We'd all be so alone without each other.

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      Thank you so much, B of S, for all the information and feelings you share. This website is indeed a life saver. I feel part of a large circle of strong, wise and caring women as opposed to feeling isolated and ashamed. It makes all the difference.

      Metta

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    All the comments above I meant. When you're writing, they're below you on the page. Sorry for any confusion...

    • Posted

      You explained things well B of S 

      I will not let LS dictate my life n manage as you say automatically 

      Tho I will confess at the beginning I felt shocked by attitudes of ‘medical professionals ‘  but they actually know less than we do 

      So yes B of S by changing mindset and this forum we can together make a difference 

      I am seeing my consultant on the 20 Nov and am going to ask him to join also my lady doctor and pharmacist.

      You are right we each can make a difference in our area and take LS into a talking point for, I know mainly women but hearing of Galen 5 year old granddaughters is tragic. Tho like you I have heard children grow out of it 🙏🏻🙏🏻

      Talking out there is vitally important  

      B of S thank you 😊 

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