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Uncomfortable feelings

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maria76995
maria76995

Hi all does anyone feel unease around people..I have invited my friend back after such a long time and every time she comes around and I laugh and get excited I just feel wrong, my head starts to feel bit giddy or uneasy feeling eyes feel full and mouth gets little dry, when she is gone and I go to bed and sleep not to bad the next day and then if people come around again back there again anyone gets like this.

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  • maria_03422
    maria_03422 maria76995

    Posted

    Hi Maria

    I feel the same way! I use to love having people in my house and now by the time they leave I'm ready to go to a full panic attact!! Also, I get very anxious if I'm on the phone with people!!

  • Indifferent
    Indifferent maria76995

    Posted

    I'm the same...unless it's my kids or grandkids, and even sometimes with them.  It is an awful feeling.  And going out to someones house is even worse.  I just feel so "out of my head" when people are around me.  And I used to love having people over too. This too shall pass, I hope.

  • Guest
    Guest maria76995

    Posted

    Maria I don't know if this is what your describing, but I just feel like it's easier just being alone or with my immediate family because everyone else seems too hard to deal with and it makes me feel uncomfortable and irritated.....?? I have read on a few menopause information sites that 'wanting to be alone' is a menopause symptom.

  • jeny86397
    jeny86397 maria76995

    Posted

    Hi Maria,, yes I get these uncomfortable feelings around my friends, one es
  • jeny86397
    jeny86397 maria76995

    Posted

    Morning Maria, yes I get these uncomfortable feelings around my friends, one especially and it's really annoying as we've been friends for 26 years, I keep putting of getting together with her because it doesn't feel right, I love her dearly but get panicky when I know we are getting together, she would totally understand if I explained how Im feeling but Im so sick of having to explain my loony self. Not feels ng good at all today, had the worst night sleep and woke up to a heavy period, ohhh joy, could curl into a ball and hide for a month.:-(

    • maria76995
      maria76995 jeny86397

      Posted

      Hi Jeny, yes they were times I was a lot worst then iam now so I think with time it could stop, I try ignoring it when my friend comes around and just chat away but the longer she stays the more unease I feel... but I get through it...I have not saw my sister for a year because I can't prize myself up to go and see her fearing this fearing that, she doesn't understand and then she calls and scares me talking about Life and how frighten she is just don't help me,of person that been through the menopause will understand maybe she did not had this symptom, we will be ok girl fight it and get through it.

    • jeny86397
      jeny86397 maria76995

      Posted

      Hello Maria, just got back from gym and intense workout, feeling a little better now, exhausted, my hormones are all over the place today, I'm angry, emotional, and a bit delirious, gonna run a nice hot bath and wait for my beautiful granddaughter to get here and have a lovely nanny cuddle, which always makes me feel better, have a lovely daybed thanku for your kind words,x

    • jeny86397
      jeny86397

      Posted

      Daybed, wots that's about, fat thumbs, hahahahahha,x

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