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Unplanned pregnancy

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jane_85100
jane_85100

I’m 39, have 4 teenage kids, and am pregnant, as the kids are from different partners me and my partner have lovely holidays and free time alone, he wants me to get an abortion but I don’t think I can, everybody thinks I should, and I’d have no help if I had the baby i feel my life is ruined , anyone else been through this ? 

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  • Guest
    Guest jane_85100

    Posted

    What about considering adoption? It would be a lot to start over again with all teenagers but it can be done. Best of luck with whatever you decide to do.
  • stephie2
    stephie2 jane_85100

    Posted

    This must have been a shock to the system.  Has your partner said that he will not support you if you continue with the pregnancy?  This is also your choice.  It is not just a one sided choice that is to be made.  Have you told your partner that you want to keep it?
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