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Thanks to everyone who asked about me. My husband thought it would be a nice break to go away in our touring caravan as I was feeling a bit better last weekend, negative thoughts where diminishing, so of we went to pick up caravan that we have stored on a local farm, only to find that it had been broken into, all the importtant things like water butt, waste water container microwave, they had even unscrewed the fire extinguisher of the wall, made a complete mess of the door and lock getting into it. Anyway after borrowing the things we needed from family we set off to Bala in Wales, I felt great , no stress or anxiety until we came to put the awning up and realised they had even robbed the curtains and tie down pegs for the awning, what low life people we have in this country.
So while we are away, we recieve a telephone call to say that a close friend has passed away, the funeral is tomorrow, which is why Im back so soon.
Couldnt relax,maxed out on diazapine, that doesnt even touch the anxiety
I was ok until last night, woke up wretching this morning, tremor is back
and the aggitation in my legs, cannot eat as stomach cannot tolerate food
so I no its not the right thing to do but I have drank a bottle of wine, just to get some relief,I know I will feel worse tomorrow but who cares.
Back to see psych on wednesday if I last that long.
T o Pooh Bear I have tried sertraline and it didnt help, my psych wont prescribe anti depressants when he knows I only have anxiety.
By the way has anybody read on one of the other forums, somebody wrote that there psych had told them buspirone was only a placebo.
Love to you all, and wishing well.
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Danielle xxx
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Danielle, most anti depressants treat anxiety, that is why your doctor probably prescribed them. There are not many prescribed drugs that treat anxiety alone diazepam being one but being so addictive doctors are reluctant to prescribe it. Hope the buisperone starts working for you :wink: xxx
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I just want to be me again and med free.
Love to all
Danielle
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I am not going back to mine. Ive had eneough of all that. Feel a disgrumbled about that....I wonder if my partner saw him , or something.....men eh?
I mean, really frustrating, I dont think many peopl like ,me , (eye well thas just too bad, who cares what others think). My partner has done something to my email and now cant speak to my mum. What is gong on?
So looking forward to getting away....I might not come back. Ive ha dit up to hear, with my mum , my dad, my sister, my partner, my stepdad my step mum, my GP, In fact, honestly , I think the only people that I managed to get through to (maybe , in the end was my CPN) and my children know me in side out :lol:
Maybe I should ring her and tell her whats happenend, ouch no, it can wait , its the weekend, The por woman...If I were a CPN, id be on bags off pilss, and downinn somethin at night, I f I were a doctor Id have Aspergers, and If I were a nurse, id be BPD (whoops) according to others I am that. Huh :lol: Kathryn.....there is no [b:5b1f76da53]such thing as an expert :lol: 8) :oops: :P HUH, :roll: JUST ME![/b:5b1f76da53]
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On another note, I have dealt with a number of deaths in my life, even a close friend of mine hung himself when my first born was 3 weeks old......He was 23 yearss old. I dont think I will ever get over it. regardless, of whatever torture I have been undergone, I read some posts of woman who have lost children or have undergone hurrendous teatment, and feel ashamed that I have drunk, taken laxatives, (yawn) bored the pants off my doctors ; when people suffer in so many un mentionable things. i am far from stupid, though quite possibly , far from being near to clever.
Your little episode with your caraven....sorry to be insensitive...(it is not nice being tormented like that ) but sorry, it reminded me of my step gran. I only had one grandad, that I met, i was very close to him, yet he would not live in his house. Nope, he chose to live life in his girlfriends caravn. When he died, everyone knew, and some we gob////broke into my step grans caravan......all they took was a pot of homemade stew :shock: In the end, she was soo tormented that she got a dog 75+ gets a puppy who wore a chip round its collar to trigger her alarms :lol: I mean, there is a lovely cottage round the corner, ,but no no she loved her caravan. Perhaps she thought she was on holiday for her retirement, who knows.
In my 4th yr at Uni, my mum and I discovered her dead. She had a massive heart attack. :cry: sad but true, as she was not a blood relative it did not hurt as hard...my sister and I went to her funeral....What a state,,,did not cry, or anything, and we stood as her coffin was lowered into the depths with her prior family. Sorrry, but I was very very close to my grandad, I was by his bedside everyday until he passed away. He took sooo long to die that we planned his death wishes,..he had a humanistic funeral...my sister painted a magnificent painting of him, and he was cremated. his ashes sprinkled in Loch Lomond. Sometimes I imagine him standing there tall and proud, straight back with his stong hands and his trendy DM, and his partick patter, God I miss him. I want a cuddle form my grandad. Even find the shaky hand thing reassuiring.....there will never be another man like him.....he smelyt of Loch Fyne kippers and blue chees and the ocassional dram of White Mackay :lol: I am sure he usd t ofeed it to me on a teaspoon as a baby.
So pal, its all his fault+ the fact my mum took packets of valium and prozac, while expecting me is fine. It was the toothache,
Anyway, tummy cramps, must go,
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As a teenager, I resented the way my mum heavily petted her boyfriend , honestly, seeing them snog or kiss and cuddle put me off my meals, and then Id eat virtually nothing, for months,....then binge on Macaroni Cheese, rice pudding, chocolate blue cheese peanut butter with golden syrup spread on toast. The stop feel so guilty and not eat for months. before I had children Id sit and woud be able to feel the bones in my bottom hurt with the pain. I would wear thrumpy, (or is if frumpy clothes to hide my body).
After everything , after having children, and believe me it was a huge hurdle, could not sit still for the 40 weeks, permanently worried about childbirth, made it such an issue it became one (as one does) The second time round , dreaded the brth, shone a torch up well you know what so as to show her the way, god it worked, out she popped 2hours later, just made it to hospital, could not walk , and sister standing holding my pants in the air thinking wtf. Why is she groaning like that? Then rushed to the |HDU section , an I am panicking thinking hit whats happpened..hEartbeat raised, etc, and then the nurse says Push...I am thinking this is not possible, this is nothing compared to the right up your ares pain (Iam ging to split in 2), nope felt nothing, honestly cansya that thrush is more painful , anyway pushed baby out, fell out with in minutes, but chord tangled round neck they check her shes okay hand her to me, then examine her hole in her bum ...sorry indentation above bum,,, its nothing shes okay then sucks my nipples for Scotalnd. I stand up and shake, and shake and shake, and midwive injects something in to me....dont know what it was, as when I stand masses of blood are running down mr,, like the 10 month period I had missed so then shake someore and then ask my partner (god forbid ) to hold me in the shower ) for I could not sto pshaking. Little becca sleeps with her thumb in her mouth, swiftly they move me into a room a labou suite with the moving bed, Did not sleep and got really frustrated all night long, I knew partner and sister at home together drinking, I wanted to be at home withh my precious 2 year old. I did not sleep for mayybe 12 days afterwards...then when it caught up on me could not get out of bed. Mum would shout at ne for not answering the door, I never stuck up for myself. Got over all that thn e partners trying to punch me with baby in pouch...i run out the house quietly crying. My decline , my loss, go to shop and buy my wine. :cry: I will never forget the pain the heartache the realisation that no one should trust anyone. This was the start of hell for me......and boy it got worse...How the hell did I get onto this subject????WTF is going on with me, tummy giving me jip and had the wors
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Just yelled at lurch, as my trust issues have taken over, I cant stand the man, I cant stand him.....I wish hed just go. Appparently I am a head case and Ive mad it all up! Hmpf....gee thanks. well, my last words to him were loving...If he were so loved up by me well, why has he never bothered to even ask . ho I am????? You should see him drowl hanging out his mouth and yes hes got a man cold....oh my god. you must be dying.....get out my house...leave me alone dont fiuckkin ever look in my direction as oh my god there is no saying what I might do............God sh*t , I feel sick...Is no one listening,... someon help me, I am so sad alone upset, Ive even put a chair agisnt my door so he cant come in my room , ive also done it so his elderly father cant come in, so I can get a kip and then take my fat pill tonight...Who the f invented this drug..? Ah , how clever a pill.....that make you increase appetite, and slow down maetabolic rate ...just so you can feeel happy. Not for me thanks......sh*t that s it, I dont know Ive been in and out my gps, he possibly hates me to, its allright though, coz even my children hate me, even I hate me,, Ive got to go now. Thanks.
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