vaginal sore/rash after sex.

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Ill try not to make this long. I had sex with my new partner (who claimed he had been tested like I asked him to) who said he was clean of any sti’s etc.  After having sex I was sore which is usually the case with me as I’m always “dry” down there. Less than 24 hours later I started to sting (severely) while I peed, that much so I screamed the house down. I continued going about my business as I assumed it would be a minor water or urine infection as I didn’t go to the toilet after sex. But then my vagina started to become more sore and even sitting down hurtsad. I then took it upon myself to try and look for any thing out of the ordinary down there and noticed what looks to be a white/fleshy/yellow patch on either side of the opening (I don’t know the medical term) I thought it looked like a sore or ulcer indicating to me it’s something along the lines of Syphilis or herpes. But this was less than 24hours after the encounter and Syphilis apparently doesn’t show that quickly. I have slightly yellow discharge and can’t pin point what this is or even if it is an sti. hellllpppppp😩😩

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    I know how distressing such experience could, and I'll do my best to help. Forest, I'd suggest you upload clear pictures of the affected area to give us a little more understanding of the situation.

    When uploading, be sure that you're not posting from a cellphone as it won't give you the option to upload media. Use a tablet or a computer instead, and you should see a screen similar to the one attached below 👇

  • Posted

    Discharge is not a typical symptom of herpes, but is possible. Some of your other symptoms do sound like herpes; pain when urinating, skin irritation and burning. But I would think of herpes as more of a skin condition.

    Your symptoms also sound more like a chlamydia or other infection - burning with urination and an abnormal vaginal discharge, and urinary urgency.

    Go to your nearest doctor/clinic and get tested. They may swab you or have you take a urine test. If it is a bacterial infection they can likely treat you with anti-biotics. 

  • Posted

    Only way to trust a man got tested is to see his results for your own eyes. It is often best to use condoms with a new partner until you are more...ahem...familiar with them. Like, when you know them long enough to fully trust them, and can confirm you are their sole sex partner as long as you are sleeping together. My first recommendation for you is to start using lube any time you are sexual. If you are often dry, this will work wonders for you. Less than 24 hours after sex, symptoms of any STIs would be exceedingly rare. It could, potentially, be a yeast infection. Discharge is not always indicative of something you should be concerned about (unless it's green, red, brown, etc), but it would be wise for you to see a doctor to get some stress off of your mind.

    • Posted

      Aw Thankyou for your reply. I think I’m too trusting.  But yeah I have been to the doctor. No results for a couple of weeks or so. 
    • Posted

      adam65757 That should read "Only way to trust a potential sex partner". not "Only way to trust a man" Women lie also.

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