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elmehdi
elmehdi

Hello every one 

my problem is psychologically 

and i am really need help

 ( i can't trust Doctors in my country because all of them give nordaz or some pills like that to their patientes )

i am from morocco and i smoke a lots of weed since 2010 almost when i was in the age of 16 years old 

i smoke exactly ( hashish ) and i didn't find many informations about it 

but the real problem is i can't stop smoking it, i have 21 years old now  

and every day im telling myself tomorow i'm gonna Smoke just one joint at night but the first things i do in the morning is searching for it 

i have a fear if i can't stop smoking because i really want to quit but in the same time i feel like i like it very much 

is this two opposite ideas can make me sick with a schizophrenia or something like thats ???

because i live every hour in my day thinking like that

(like weed / heat weed ) 

Thank you and Sorry because it's too long 

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  • elizabeth20203
    elizabeth20203 elmehdi

    Posted

    Hello Elmehdi, I don't know much about your country are there any drug rehabilitation programmes. If you want to give up the weed go to see your gp for support. Weed can cause paranoia in people that smoke weed, and although I am not sure if it actually causes mental health I do know that it can make depression worse. My nephew smoked weed when he was young & he had schizophrenia and was paranoid. I don't want to frighten you but he commited suicide when he was 35 and always regretted smoking weed. Please think about your future a job, marriage a family if you haven't already got them. Weed. cannot do any good what's so ever. You seem as if your addicted to it so get that help sooner rather than later. Best of luck.

    Elizabeth.

    • elmehdi
      elmehdi elizabeth20203

      Posted

      Thank You very much Elizabeth For You're helpful comment 

      i'am Happy That Still Good People Like You 

      I will Try more harder To Stop this time 

      You are So Right I am dreaming to have a good job and married ... 

      but im very bored because i have 2 years of Studing to have my Diplomat. im in the second Year i wish that These bad feelings gonna Change When i Finished my Studies but that Dosen't mean i will not try to Quit from now 

      Thank You again Elizabeth 

    • deirdre._03652
      deirdre._03652 elmehdi

      Posted

      Hi young man....try to give up slowly, if you slip back to smoking more weed. Then just try again and again and again.....ask your gp or addiction clinic if you have one where you live. For help and guidance...they will want to help you all they can....I understand how difficult it is ( I was an alcoholic for many years. ) but if you can stop...or even cut down your health will improve day by day....I do so hope that you get some help young man...you have a wonderful future ahead of you. A good career....a family....and good self esteem....just keep trying. You will get there....sincere regards to you....Deirdre xxx
    • elmehdi
      elmehdi deirdre._03652

      Posted

       Mr Deirdre You are a Very Good Person

       i'm really appreciate your help it is very helpful 

      yes the important thing Is Keep trying and never give up 

       i was Hoping from someone to tell me that he has the same situation and he Win after all. and this person is you

      Your comment will decrease  my fears smile thanks a lot

  • james_21
    james_21 elmehdi

    Posted

    Hi elmehdi,

    I was in exactly the same position as you were, i would tell myself one small joint before bed but then would smoke loads more and every night say it was the last one. It never was.

    The thing for you is it has now become a routine rather than something you can simply enjoy (which is what weed should be, something to enjoy). My advice is to DEFINIETLY have a break. Stope smoking for a good while (like a month) and then see if you still want to smoke it socially or to relax in the evening. (But not everyday!)

    A way i was able to force myself into a break was to cut my losses and throw my weed away one day. Put my smoking stuff into a bag and put it out of sight in my room. Then do other stuff in the evening to take my mind off of it. It may be hard to sleep the first few nights but this will soon go. It's just your body getting a new routine. 

    Now i smoke and relax everynow and then with friends or on my own sometimes and can fully enjoy it. Rather than regretting every use! You will definienly feel better

    Hope this helped

     

    • elmehdi
      elmehdi james_21

      Posted

      Great idea mr James im so glad that you give me you're advice

      it's very valuable for me

      i will Do this plan it's feel good after thinking like this .

      really i was very scared When i imagine myself without weed 

      and i can't give up if tell myself i will Smoke Only one 

      So The best thing is the medium ( You're idea )

      thank you very much mr james You are So helpful 

      thanks for all of You <3>

    • elizabeth20203
      elizabeth20203 elmehdi

      Posted

      Hi Elmehdi, glad we could all be of help. You have had plenty of good advice. Cutting down is probably the easiest for you right now. Good luck.

      Elizabeth.

    • elmehdi
      elmehdi elizabeth20203

      Posted

      Yes im so lucky to have You all on my side + my familly

      i wish you all a lot of happines in you're life :D 

  • james_21
    james_21 elmehdi

    Posted

    Honestly elmehdi you will feel so much better after a break! I truly do not believe weed to be a negative thing, but to use it every day (from experience) is not a good idea. For me, it used to be 'what harm could one more night smoking be' then i'd be stoned and regret it. But then the next day i would say exactly the same thing and it was just a negative cycle. I went from smoking everyday to having a long break (2 months). Now i can sleep perfectly without it and do not feel the need to smoke. But if i'm with mates or just bored one night, i can have a quiet smoke, enjoy it, and get on with things the next day without the need to smoke. 

    You'll definitely get there elmehdi, i have no doubt about it. Just takes will power and commitment!

    • elmehdi
      elmehdi james_21

      Posted

      im on the way to Pass all this difficult and thanks to Your advices smile 

      i have some issues to sleep but i will fight to be normal again and i will do Exactly what you say mr james your idea is more confortable 

      thank You all 

      ( Thank it's nothing for your help ) 

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