What could this be ?!?!!!?

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I'm like freaking out!! ive been with the same guy for over a year now, I was tested before we got together & even after our first time, & everything came out negative! March 1st we had sex and he gave me oral(like he normally does) but a few days later i start getting these sores! at first i thought it was because i shaved, I normally wax because I get terrible razor bumps but this is looking like all the pics on google of herpes!! like wtf??! i went to my DR & she swab them and did some blood work on MONDAY. I CALLED today about it and the nurse said my bloodwork came back negative but they havent got my other results in. if its's herles wouldn't something come up in the blood work?? idk what to do! like it starting to get painful, like I can't stand, sit or lay in any position without feeling uncomfortable . If pee gets on the sores it burns like hell and it hurts to wipe! also I have a terrible discharge and its running out of me like water smh this is so uncomfortable! My period is about to start and im really freaking out! IF it is hsv how do i deal with this and being on my period???! it hurts to pee /wipe so how am I supposed to keep the area clean??

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    I have the same exact thing. I have watery discharge also. it soaks my panties to the point I have to change. I also have sores like that around the same area. I only got tested Monday so I havent heard back yet but My doc and I are pretty sure itll come back positive . Do you have fever? swollen lymph nodes in your groin? for the period, I would stick to tampons

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      I got my first sore on Friday, sat my lymph nodes were really swollen and sore! By Monday they weren't as swollen and just tender if touched. I only had a couple sore now there is more and its more painful. I dont use tampons because im a heavy bleeder , thats why I HATE that both is happening at the same time! I Just wish i could disappear ! I dont understand why this is happening ! I THOUGHT I was cautious but i guess not enough!! I dont want to tell my boyfriend , im honestly scared of how he'll react!!

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      I dont have a fever! I'm just tired a lot and i have a cough

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      yeah my lymph nodes were only sore for a day and a half also (Saturday night- Monday morning) mine started off as one sore that was barable but then i got more sores a few days later , and fever and excruciating pain. The fever is gone but I'm still in a lot of pain. I'm also very cautious, but I was lax when it came to oral which is how I assume this happened. if you want to chat, feel free to message me.

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      Hey love, it does look like herpes but don't freak out stay positive, because if he did go down on you and you started getting those sores, you could be unlucky to get herpes but lucky enough that its only hsv1 and not hsv2.. hsv2 causes more sever symptoms like fevers, more frequent outbreaks generally on the genital area . hsv1 is normally orally .

      your bf couldve had hsv1 and given it to you just on your genitals.

      You should wait a little while to get the blood test for more accuracy and to find out exactly which herpes you have if it is herpes . stay strong!

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      ok.. my blood work all cane back negative. So how long does it take to show up?? My partner hasnt had any symptoms so idk if he gave it to me of I gave it to him smh. I see a lot of ppl on here talk about shesding and what not, how do you know when your shedding if you dont have any symptoms ?? I most likely will never have sex again, I'd feel terrible giving this to someone else. I'm even scared to kiss my kids on the cheek smh I just feel so nasty and embarrassed!

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      the virus takes (i read and was told) 13-16 weeks to show up in igg blood test , and for shedding, sadly you don't ever know thats its happening but IF you do have it,just do alot of research because there is sooo much about herpes people dont know and a main thing you should know is that its very common. don't make yourself feel bad. Your not nasty at all, it will feel like the end of the world in the beginning but its not , your sex life will not have to stop, you can kiss your kids, you can still do alot of things , just have to be more cautious now. Dont freak out yet because you haven't got your swab results. Don't beat yourself up ! keep us updated, stay positive

  • Posted

    i had the exact situation as you, a guy went down on me and i ended up with herpes but it was hsv1 , which im grateful for

  • Posted

    I think this is herpes and you should try some type of pain killers, and if it hurts to pee try running water over your vagina to dilute the urine. I really hope this gets better!!

    • Posted

      My DR prescribed me Acyclovir but its not really doing anything.. I have ibuprofen 800mg , is it ok to take both medicines ??

  • Posted

    My DR just called, I have hsv1 smh.

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