What happened to my penis skin after masturbating? loose, extremely stretchy, mushy
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I'am a 22 year old in perfect health. This is all started just after i had a bit more than longer normal masturbating session 2 weeks ago that lasted no more than 20-30 minutes. What is happening is frankly scary and i'm afraid my penis will never be the same ever again.
Just after masturbating the skin went loose and stretched like it lost all its firmness and elasticity its hard to describe but its now wrinkly, thin but thick at the same time, loose and sticky to the touch and just has an all round mushy feeling to it like a bit of rubber and like its almost detached. Theres also way more veins ive never noticed before or seen, its incredibly vascular even when flaccid. This isn't the first time this happened it also happened about a month ago after i masturbated 4 times in one day which i NEVER usually do. i stopped masturbating for around 3 weeks and it came much better but now i've brought it back to just how it was.
I've had this issue not quite as bad but on going for a few years now which it comes to how i'm describing just after masturbating but usually goes back to a a firmer state after a couple days. but its the worst its ever been right now.
This is making me suicidal and incredibly depressed being a virgin to it kills me knowing i may never know what sex actually feels like with this skin condition, it changes the whole texture to it and feeling and sensation is much different. It's ruining my life i cant be happy because when i'am i think about this problem and get depressed.
I also don't masturbate very often, I've gone months without it this year but these days its around 1-2 days a week if that. because every time i do it seems to damage it further.
No one seems to know what this is, i'm starting to think its something to do with the collagen and for some reason my body isn't producing any in the penis and hence why its so loose and different.
I'l see a dermatologist if things don't improve which they are not
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Wee_Dugie zippy00
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Zippy00, this is a mysterious reaction to the masturbation practices you have detailed. The skin of the penis should be able to withstand extended stimulation of several hours, if not more with little to be seen by way of reaction 24 hours later. Someone else on here however has described a similar reaction to this.
I can very much empathise with how you feel about this and the psychological state you find yourself in.
What you need to emphasize to yourself is that you have done the right things to try and rectify this situation with your penis by abstaining from masturbation and so on.
I personally have experienced being a virgin and having severely damaged my penis by my own actions and thinking all possibilities of ever experiencing sex were over. This is a rational reaction to what you feel you have caused for yourself - however, there are lots of things you can do to get your penis 'fighting fit' again, as I have had to done several times. All you need is to sustain the things you have already tried.
You have already done, or thought of the things I thought of myself when my penis was at its worst. Abstaining from masturbation needs to be extended to a period of months and you need to find the right kinds of things that will help your penile skin to be more healthy. What I found is gently massaging my penis with a little aloe vera gel was good. Stay away from oil based products. Wash your penis with water only and dry it 100% immediately afterwards.
As you have mentioned depression and suicidal thoughts you need to get to a Doctor, such as your regular GP or Family Doctor to discuss the huge impact this has had on you - you need to explain the severe depression at least if you cannot imagine wanting to admit to the Suicidal thoughts. Doing this could get you referral to a Dermatologist - but, if going to a GP / Family Doctor is an issue for you, you can go to a Specialist Sexual Health Walk-in Service [No! they are not just for people who have been having sex] and ask to speak to a duty Urologist, or simply get some basic advice of what to do from any of the Specialist staff on duty. ANY staff member should be able to put you completely at ease as they deal with extremely anxious people all the time and treat you with dignity, respect and confidentiality.
Once you are back on track AND you have seen a GP / Family Doctor or a Sexual Health Specialist and you want some more guidance from me on being kind to your penis either update this discussion forum or start a new post on the Penis Disorders Forum .....
ineedhelpjustin zippy00
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Hey Zippy00,
I cannot see the pictures to see exactly what you’re talking about but I believe it is very similar to my situation. I too masturbated aggressively and vigorously. I’ve been very depressed about this too because the skin is tender and basically permanently inflamed. Unfortunately, I don’t think there I a cure for this because once skin is stretched there’s no undoing it. I hope you find peace with yourself. I am currently in the process of trying to forgive myself the harm I have caused to my penis and I hope you do too. I’ve had terrible injuries during my life and this one is like no other. It’s effected me physically and mentally to where at one point I swear I just didn’t want to wake up anymore. I’m sure you have similar thoughts as me as far as wanting to go back in time and reverse this harm and just have another chance at treating your penis with care and I do too. There is hope though, you can still have an orgasm and still find someone who cares for you. You can move past this and learn from it. It isn’t a good thing that has happened but it has occurred. I’m here for you. If you need someone to talk to just message me on here. I have asked for assistance on here before and it helped me tremendously.
Best regards
christophe42626 zippy00
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I have the same exact problem it all started 8 months ago my penis dramatically shrivelled all of a sudden along with a yeast infection and sharp bulging pain in my groin along with penile numbness I later found out those are symptoms of hard flaccid so I changed bad habits abstained from masterbation and just hoped it would get better 5 months later nothing got better 1 month later later i stand up and my penis had a very strange feeling and after that the skin of my penis is the exactly how you described yours. This has broken me down. sorry for all the spelling errors I just want to get this out. but im also a sufferer of this so if you ever want to talk message me plus id like to know if you found help or if your cindition got better.