What help can I get for my 18 year old for depression if he doesn't want help ?
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My 18 year old son is suffering from anxiety /depression and I have seen messages (which he doesn't know)saying he wants to kill himself but on the other hand he is out with friends.
Can I ask his doctor to refer him to a pschciatric assessment? He is on mediation and sleeps in the daytime alot. Quit his job and college, went for one counselling session, one hypnotherapy session then refuses to go to any others.
Feel helpless as a parent of an adult, any suggestions please?
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Tango Honeybee17
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Hi Honeybee.
I really empathise with you on this one. It is a tricky area. Are you able to get any copies of the notes that you've seen re him wanting to kill himself? If you are able to get copies then great. If not, then you still need to speak to his Doctor and see how they can help. If they think there is serious risk of harm they will get involved...that does not necessarily mean you will be entitled to know what's happening.
I hope this helps. Just bite the bullet and take it to his personal physician.
All the best, S.
Honeybee17 Tango
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Thanks For the reply
Yes I have taken screen shots. I know it's not good to pry but I felt I needed to because I felt he was at risk.
shaz6098 Honeybee17
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Hi Honeybee,
As Tango said, it may be helpful for you to speak to his GP, especially, if you are all in the same practice. The difficultly, I guess, is at the age of 18 he will be classed as an adult and as such will be afforded his right to privacy. Maybe you could find out the telephone number for your local Crisis Team / Mental Health Trust and see if they could give you some advice on how to help me. Sometimes, it is really hard to help someone who doesn't want to be helped.
Good luck! Hugs xx
Honeybee17 shaz6098
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