What is this

okay one other question. When i masterbate (god this is embarrassing) my clit area, and all around that gets swollen why is this?

are you using a vibrator or fingers

do you use a lot of pressure

how long do you take

usually fingers and i know my vagina is extra sensitive. I have been sexually assulted before so im not sure if that makes a difference ( no stds tho). when i use my vibrator it doesn't happen as bad. I tend to use lots of pressure and not really that long.

i also tend to get UTI's a lot

make sure you use a lot of lube

try varying how you masturbate

it sounds like to vigorous stimulation

Thank you

any time

stay safe

Can I just ask a few more questions because I do not have anyone in my life to answer them?

What is a safe soap to use down there and is there anything i can do to prevent the ingrown hairs and things when shaving?

dont you soap just warm water

your vagina cleans itself

why do you need to shave

this is normal for your vagina and clit area to get swollen. it is a highly sensitive area and when your aroused the blood flow increases in this area and thus the swelling. it will go back down after like normal. You can use Dove sensitive soap if you like. mild soap is okay nothing with strong fragrance . if you shave, go with the hair growth and the fewer passes the better.