What should I do I am really Scared?

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I am a 15 yrs old Indian teen and I Masturbate a lot. I have been masturbating since when I was 13 yrs old. At first I used to touch my Penis and masturbate. But after some time I didn't got erected when I masturbated while touching my penis with my hands. So I just used to shake my Penis while my undergarments were on. And till now I do the same until last week. When I was masturbating 2 times a day and one night when I ejaculated i felt pain. And it seemed like the pain was when my sperm was passing through whatever pipe it passes through. After that i did not Masturbated for 8 days and on the 9th day I did it again and again I felt the pain. This time I also felt discomfort in my testicles and I was really scared. After one day, I could help my self with it and I again masturbated and this time too i felt the pain alongwith a bit back pain too. Since the oain started I have Masturbated 5 times and always felt the pain. I really don't know what has happened to me and I can not tell these things to my parents. I would also like to add that I have uncircumcised penis and I am unable to open it. It is tight. Whatever has happened to me, can it be cured without going to the hospital? Because I again want to Masturbate and I can't myself with it.

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    The same thing happened to me 2 years ago. Sometimes it happens because you masturbate too much. drink lots of water and cranberry juice and it will go on its own. mine lasted about a month or so.
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    Good morning Dimon.  I look up and took a look to see what doctors say about it.  It is what I through.  Remember you are only 15 and men masturbate anyway they can.  It's normal.  And when your young it's like a new toy. Also your body is still growing.  But you may have a prostate infection.  That is when the prostate get inflamed for some reason or another. .   Scott told you a good thing.  Drink a lot of water and also cranberry juice.  It will help with the inflammation.  Hold off on your masturbation for a while to help your body heal.  Why is it that you can't talk with you parents.  ( I do know what you are going through my parent were the same. Had to learn stuff on my own )  But I was not that way with my 2 sons.  If they had a question about there body I was there for them to try to answer there questions.  Can you just talk with your Father He was young once and maybe he want through the same thing.    Just to relax you will get better  Ken

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      Thank you sir for your satisfying answer. Sir i don't see any swelling or sign of inflammation in my penis. Though sometimes i feel Discomfort in my testicles. And I have noticed that even when lightly hit my testicles it hurts. I think my testicles have become more sensitive. And sir it is not that I don't want to share this with my father, but if i tell him that i Masturbate and since when I was 13 yrs old. That would be a nightmare for me! You know In india these things are still a taboo.

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      Dimon.  I know in India you have a different way over there.  And I tried to read some of the text's on your culture.  Some say it's a sin some said it's not.  But in your culture it very's but it is still done by all men at one time or another.  I'm sorry that you and your father can't talk.  Remember you are young and your body is still growing.  Your testicles are going to be sensitive from time to time.  I wish you could have that talk with your Father He may have went through the same thing at your age.  But make sure you got the juice and drink a lot of water.  Try to hold off some to make sure your body get over any inflammation.  Take your time to grow.  Life will be a blessing when the time is right  Ken    

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    It's better to see a doctor anyway. Find somebody who you can talk to. 

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    I want to update that from yesterday, i am drinking a lot of water but still i am having difficulties with it. I am not getting the urge to urinate and when I try to forcefully do it then very little yellowish urine comes out. I am afraid that it is affecting me badly! No urge to urinate even if i am drinking lots of water???.
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      Hi Dimon,

      I’m a GP and of Indian subcontinent origin so I understand your anxieties.  Try not to panic - discovering your body is part and parcel of growing up, not just physically but also mentally.  You’re just going through puberty, and I can assure you that there will be thousands of boys of your age and Asian background who will be having the same issue.  Masturbation is relatively taboo still in Asia, but most boys/men would have tried it at least once in their life. It’s done but just not spoken about, probably from the beginning of time!  However the culture is evolving.  Also from a doctor’s point of view, we study all of these symptoms and medical conditions, in order to help people like you!  Your symptoms sound pretty common, so take a deep breath.  I’d recommend you to hold off the masturbation for a few weeks, but you ought to tell your parents simply about the pain in your genitalia, and you don’t have to disclose that you were masturbating. You really do need to see a GP or urologist to discuss your symptoms in depth.  A doctor needs to examine you to give you a proper diagnosis. Try to pluck up the courage - trust me, this is for your best interest and your parents should truly be supportive.  

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      Dimon  Listen to the Doctor.  Tell your father or your parents that you have pain and you are not peeing the way you should.  Also do not mention the masturbating to them or the doctor because he is going to tell them.  Just get to a doctor to make sure all is fine.  Don't worry your not alone  Ken 

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    I want update that my pain has gone. Very minor discomfort after ejaculation. Urine in good amount and till now everything is good.
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    Thank you to each one of you who supported me on this hard time.

    I am feeling much better now and i have started learning python.

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      Let me say one more thing my friend.  You are 42  I don't know if you have live with anyone before but that will be different.  Right now you have a long distance romance.  And when you get together you think about sex you love here and what to spend time with her.   You will soon be living together and it will be different you will see each other all the time.  Remember you will be deal with work and so will she.  You will not be able to spend all the time in bed.  You will need to talk with her and tell her what you like and she will tell you.  If you love her like you say you will do anything for her.  I don't know to many men that can come so easy so many time.  I did know One guy that he said that he could cum 3 times in one sections.  He married a women that was not to into it but they made each other happy.  You may be able to get 2 off because a man can cum faster then a women.  Get off fast the first time and then enjoy her and make her happy and maybe you both can cum at the same time.  Enjoy your life  Ken 

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